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I know im supposed to love myself and be happy but god damn is it hard. There's days where i can say, "yeah i look really cute" or if i need to say something nice about myself i can say, "i have a nice smile" but there are other days where i just cant.
Im just exhausted and i can only see a fat tummy and chubby arms with no muscle and a small double chin and weird legs and a feminine smile and feminine eyes and too big hips and no facial hair and and and
I can see these things in other people and be enamored and be gaping at their beauty. Its just not okay for me to have these things. I know thats not true, but i still think it
I dont know what to do
giving feminine energy
keep urself clean and keep up with ur basic hygiene (shower every day)
get hungry for knowledge - go to libraries, read in coffee shops, etc.
always be kind and don’t talk crap about people! this is a big one because it really affects ur attitude and the way other people see u
stay organized. an easy way to do this is just to tidy ur room before you go to bed. this way, ur bedroom is more ur sanctuary
do ur hair pretty!! use accessories like scrunchies, headbands, claw clips, etc.
always have your essentials in ur bag (menstrual products, lip gloss, phone, earbuds, whatever makes u feel prepared)
remember that u don’t have to prove anything to others. make urself enough for u personally without worrying what other people think, because chances are they’re focused more on themselves
if u embarrass yourself, laugh it off and stay calm. u are above embarrassment babes, u are divine, so a little slipup won’t matter
have dance parties in ur room to songs that make u feel confident
DONT CHASE ATTRACT
remember that control doesn’t mean controlling other people. control means controlling ur own assumptions
breathe. just breathe. and remember u are beautiful <3