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Them: "Be sure to push your boundaries! Change your routine up! Do things that make you uncomfortable!"
Me: *holds you gently by the cheeks*
Not you. You're autistic. You require routine and boundaries in order to thrive and be healthy. Yes, change will happen and it's important to have a healthy relationship with that possibility. But you do not push yourself. Existing is difficult enough. This one is not for you.