Remember:

I've been following this lady on TikTok who runs an anti-porn account out of what I can only describe as sociological curiosity. Basically, when I first encountered her videos I sniffed out pretty quickly that she was both a) very very cishet and b) a religious conservative and listening to her talk about sex and relationships has become this fascinating window for me into how The Other Side lives.

Like one of the main conceits of her content revolves around the fact that men have to constantly fight against being overcome by lust, which is hilarious to me, someone who has read fanfiction, because acting like cishet men are somehow uniquely prone to being gooners is so deeply ignorant of how anyone outside a religious conservative community lives.

exploiting your praise kink to make you do grosser and grosser things for me.

don't you want to be a good girl?

Some women like it. That’s their right to choose a life that aligns with their submissive sexual identity.

The “all women are below men” nonsense we see so much of is written by naive simpletons for the most part. The few who aren’t simpletons are grifters.

if she wears cute lingerie for you don’t take everything off, push the panties to the side and fuck her in her cute little outfit.

PSA:

The various found content that people repost onto their blogs will be used by me as a writing prompt. I do this commonly as a way to randomly/spontaneously generate and write down some of my own random thoughts.

I write for my own self reflective benefit and purpose.

Don’t try to make yourself the center of my attention simply because I reblogged something you posted (specifically when it is not your own actual content) and then added my own thoughts.

Unless you are my partner, you are 100% irrelevant - in every way - to what I am writing and why I am writing it.

If I write something and it offends your shallow skim on a topic, that’s a you issue. Entirely. Simply block me. Whatever drama you are craving isn’t going to manifest here in any way other than me blocking you.

The first step is accepting that you need training.

The next step is asking someone that you think might be willing to train you for them to put the time and effort in to provide you their training.

The next step is to discuss all of the elements of what training would include and negotiating together so that the greatest chances of success and fulfillment from training become possible.

Then, you will have to work together in order to create and fine-tune a practice that reflects both of your needs, goals, and enjoyment.

Then you will have to do the work. Both of you. Training takes time and energy and focus to create appropriate systems and practices. Being trained takes time and energy and focus to put the effort in that is required in order for the practice to become effective in helping you reach your goals.

Regular discussion about how things went in past experiences and sessions is essential to fine-tuning future practices.

Training is as much an art, as it is a practice, and the only way for the art aspect of it to blossom is to be sincere and give it access to your heart. Dedication to practice can, through sincerity, open the heart to true enjoyment and artistry, and it is OK for that to be the pathway.

Porn is a very good tool to use as the basis of discussion about kinks. It is important to remember that women in our society are conditioned to think that what you are showing them is about what they need to look like and not the behavior or energy being exhibited. This is a common misunderstanding and can create a lot of unnecessary difficulties for communication based on porn images / clips.

Sometimes the appearance is the point or an element of the point, but where that is the case it should be specifically made the focus. So, if appearance isn’t the point, be very specific about the fact that the women in the porn’s appearance is not the point. Be clear about this, even to the point of absurdity because the depth of this assumption is extremely difficult for a lot of women to overcome even with support and intentional direction. This can even manifest to the degree that they might not believe that this isn’t the real point of what you are showing them.

fellas, this is your reminder to send her all your favorite p0rn videos so she can take notes on what your expectations are for her

A reminder from the therapy couch: just because you’re a service submissive does not mean you should pour out your cup completely and never replenish it. You do both your Dominant and yourself a disservice by disinvesting in your wellbeing.

Yes, yes, pretend my vocabulary is a negative to firm up your safe space of self delusions and lies. Wallowing in fallacies doesn’t in fact dig you out of the hole you excitedly dug.

Your blog is utterly littered with biological hierarchy nonsense that you use to justify the delusional bullshit you pretend is a rebuttal to my opening comment.

Again, the main reason people so adamantly cling to this sort of disinformation peddling is a lack of capability to earn a woman’s respect on equal footing. They need an imbalanced power dynamic as the starting point so they can pretend their inept interpersonal skillset is actually a personal strength.

The nonsensical rant as reply was, of course, not at all actually relevant to reply to. The gish gallop of BS thrown out as desperate effort to justify advocating a society of weak men who don’t have to actually fully earn a woman’s submission by pretending the deck is innately and biologically stacked is the same bullshit rapists use to justify their biological urge to rape people.

Good stuff if you’re emotionally stunted and prefer women who accept emotionally and developmentally stunted men as the norm for society, I suppose.

I’ve wasted entirely too much time platforming these ineptly framed and utterly nonsensical views and the fallacious rhetoric these folks use for justification of them.

Feminism as the foundational point of a relationship is the only method that exists for a woman to submit to a man. Half baked discussions of capitalism and misplaced understanding of our social ills suits you... Wallow in it along with your fallacies used as deflection some more, though.

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feminism

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