Fyi. A Woman Can

I’m not sure who to attribute this to, but it is this type of content we need more blogs to be posting

I feel frequently compelled to explain this, and I let it go almost always when it crosses my feed, but… here we are.

Feminism is the engine by which the choice is made. Choosing to be a submissive, in this case an object of male attention and pleasure, is a choice that can only be made from a position of inherent equality. That state never actually leaves and as such it is always revocable.

A woman who has chosen to submit is a Feminist and is practicing feminism in her life.

A woman is entitled to experience whatever energy in her life and relationships that she wants to experience. Feminism is simply the inherent truth of her equality and power to make whatever choices she wants to make.

You can either spread feminism or spread your legs. Once you choose one option, the other vanishes forever

Choose wisely

a LOT of kink content on tumblr is fantasy and does not reflect what kink should actually be like. it is totally ok to be turned on by these fantasies and it's good to incorporate them into your sex life in safe ways. however a lot of the hot hardcore kink scenarios that make it seem like everything was spontaneous are not necessarily lying to you, but they are leaving out the "before" part. kink requires a LOT of discussion and communication. you should not forsake this part of kink because you wanna get to sex immediately because the before and after of kink are just as important, if not more, than the during.

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

Every time she asks me to hurt her, my heart twitches. Not because it's kinky, but because of the amount of trust she puts in. She knows I am gonna hurt her but not enough that she can't handle it. She trusts me to respect her limits. She knows I will protect her. She just wanna have a taste of the adrenaline rush in her body and dopamine in her brain which calms her chaotic mind.

Feminism means that every woman has an intrinsic right to choose any kind of sexual energy that she wants for herself in her life.

Yes Daddy 🤤💜

Consent Survey

We may be weird, but we do take consent seriously. Here is the link to the template that we use to gauge interests and establish consent and gauge interest on different kink topics.

We are giving it away for free to anyone that would like to make a copy and use it!

https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_how_couples_can_sustain_a_strong_sexual_connection_for_a_lifetime?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare

Perfect isn’t possible, but being a person who consistently practices makes you a good girl

Drool hehe

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