I’m Not Sure Who To Attribute This To, But It Is This Type Of Content We Need More Blogs To Be Posting

list in your mind what you can manage, and direct your positive energy towards them

It's ok to have rape fantasies/kinks where you're the aggressor.

It's ok to have teacher/student fantasies/kinks where you're the teacher.

It's ok to have power imbalance fantasies/kinks where you're the one with more power.

It's ok to have predator/prey fantasies/kinks where you're the predator.

It's ok to have pain/punishment fantasies/kinks where you're the one inflicting the pain/punishment.

Your fantasies and kinks don't make you a bad person.

Safely exploring your fantasies and kinks through fiction or through role playing (either online or in-person acts) with other consenting adults doesn't make you a bad person.

The essence of Dominance....💜

Healthy relationships do not call for self abandonment, they are a unity of two individual people.

Consent Survey

We may be weird, but we do take consent seriously. Here is the link to the template that we use to gauge interests and establish consent and gauge interest on different kink topics.

We are giving it away for free to anyone that would like to make a copy and use it!

It is important to understand that being a feminist simply means that a woman implicitly starts from a position of equality. Some women will then use that position of equality to choose to give some elements of their power over to a man. In the case of female submission this (a starting point of equality and the choice to give power to another) is in fact the only path to actual female submission. The narrative of intrinsic female inferiority is the narrative of weak and incompetent men who cannot earn the gift of a woman’s power.

I'm a feminist but...

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Watch this video. Really watch it. See how she is challenged by this, and then so clearly feels pleased at having succeeded in providing this service to her partner?

Self degradation as a display of your commitment of service to your dominant partner can take many forms.

Some of the essential elements are:

That it be a task that poses some degree of challenge for the submissive to overcome in order to perform it. The greater the challenge the greater the sense of success and pleasure in having overcome it;

That the submissive performing the task amplifies their feeling of submission and their partner’s feeling of control/dominance when it is performed. Again, the greater the challenge the more rewarding the energy is from performing the task sincerely and successfully;

That it serves to support some value the dominant has, regardless of whether the submissive understands that value. Letting go of “why” is a big part of the trust necessary to overcome big challenges. Understanding comes from practicing together.

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Desiring to serve largely becomes an exercise in practicing the performance of challenging tasks that demonstrate commitment to service.

The dominant partner is going to explore having the submissive perform a variety of low rated and challenging tasks from their checklist because performance of these difficult tasks is how true submission and commitment to service can be most dramatically explored.

Feeling the energy flow as a submissive obeys through extreme challenges is often an intrinsic aspect of this family of kinks.

My good girl, my ashtray, I'm going to smoke my Cuban cigar, open your mouth, I don't want to see a tear fall, the consequences could be much worse, and remember to always thank me 🖤