Sometimes I Just Need To Be Bred Extremely Good But I Don’t Wanna Deal With Consequences For My Breeding

gah, now I have a /deep/ intense need to be kissed exactly like this!! 💕

I can only hope I look so patient when I’m waiting for such a treat! I feel like I would be wiggling too much in excitement, you know? <3

sometimes I just need to be reminded of my place and take a good punishment <3

if you say “make me” and expect that i won’t bend your bratty ass over my knee and spank you raw then you’re dead wrong

oh what a wonderful life it would be to own a crane machine for such silly things! I would just wanna play with it with my own plushies but.. it would be a cute idea of how a dolly is picked out to be used by whoever won the game. so many pretty thoughts!

very important info!!! please take this kind of thing seriously please!!

Aftercare. 💙✨

I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.

Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.

Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.

That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.

Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.

I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.

Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.

Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.

That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.

That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.

AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨

oh I love this so much! him pulling her against him like that and how eager she is!! oh it’s just so very fun! I wish I could be made so eager <3

😍 what a cute text to receive!

oh. I like this a very very lot.

So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

it sounds scary, but also.. yes please? it’s okay to have these kind of fantasies, right? it just makes sense to me that this is exactly how I need to be treated. it’s how I know I’m wanted <3

If you’re not willing to abduct, abuse, gaslight and obsess over me until I fall in love with you then I’m not the girl for you.

big vibes big vibes!!!!! I’m needy and this is absolutely something unreasonable I want!

Yeah you're cute, but can I wake you up at 3am just to hear your voice?