22! she/they! USA! pan/poly! little! submissive! has: daddy! big body!!!! I love messages from new friends! 18+ 🧸
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sometimes I just need to be reminded of my place and take a good punishment <3
if you say “make me” and expect that i won’t bend your bratty ass over my knee and spank you raw then you’re dead wrong
oh! she should be so happy now! her concerns were heard and she’s now being rewarded for all of her hard work!! wow, and they didn’t even make her beg or anything, what a nice man <3
Girls don’t deserve an opinion.
one of my more embarrassing pleasures! I just like to be treated like a baby who needs to be taken care of you know? I just need praise and guidance to really know what’s good for me <3
It’s so hot when men don’t take me seriously. I can’t help it - when a man simply looks at me and assumes I’m a clueless, helpless little dolt, it makes me melt. It makes me mad, and insults me, and frustrates me… but mostly, it gets me so damn wet.
A condescending, patronizing tone just cuts right through me, making it clear that in his eyes, I’m just a pleasing body and not much of a brain. It’s insulting, demeaning, and I wish I didn’t love it.
But fuck - I do.
Tell me how dumb I am. Roll your eyes at me when I try and show what I know. Mansplain to me and pat me on the head. No matter how hard I try not to, I’ll love you for it.
oh no! I’ve been called out!.. but also. if someone just wanted to keep me compliant and dumb, having something shoved in my mouth usually makes my head pretty fuzzy. <3
I love brats with oral fixations. Letting them push my buttons, tease me, letting them rile me up makes it that much sweeter when they say “make me” and I shove something - anything - in their mouth and watch them instantly melt and do whatever I say
oh, hey wow this is a simply drool worthy thought. 🥰
I’ve been thinking a lot about slipping medicine into your drink so that you’re too much of a groggy dumb baby to get out of bed, that way I can spend all day long having my way with you and exclusively taking care of you.
someone who is so in control that they don’t have to be big and loud to asset their control and dominance. oh it’s something magic <3
TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.
Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.
As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.
consent is literally essential. without consent, no fun can be had. communication is key and if you can’t understand that then you should not be having this kind of fun.
Shit, are people really taking “men get pegged” as a serious measure of whether a guy is a Good Boyfriend or not?
I assure you earnestly. If your girlfriend tries to pressure you into doing that or insist that you must be afraid of being ~emasculated~ if you don’t want to, it is best to Throw The Whole Woman Away.
In general, like, what sexual acts you are or are not personally comfortable with has exactly fuck all to do with how feminist or progressive you are or whatever. Ffs.
It is a delightful meme but absolutely not an excuse to forget that men, also, get to make the rules about their bodies! and that is final!
oh. I like this a very very lot.
So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.
"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."
Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.
"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."
Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.
Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.
Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.
Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."
very important info!!! please take this kind of thing seriously please!!
Aftercare. 💙✨
I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.
Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.
Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.
That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.
Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.
I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.
Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.
Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.
That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.
That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.
AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨
it’s so so cute and like gah it makes me melt every single time <3
Ok but when you’re talking like normal and then Daddy says something sweet and you just melt and your Little slips out and Daddy goes “Ah, there she is. There’s my little one”
🥺🥺🥺
I die. It’s the sweetest thing ever.
gah, now I have a /deep/ intense need to be kissed exactly like this!! 💕
absolutely!! it’s completely and totally embarrasing to admit how long I’ve actually day dreamed about this exact scenario. >~<
i just want someone to take advantage of how young and naive i am. just slowly start to grope me and tell me that it's normal to let someone touch me like this whenever they want to. then build up to taking off my clothes and having me be naked around you because this is normal and everyone does this. it's normal to let strangers touch me like this and take my clothes off. 🥺👉👈
it sounds scary, but also.. yes please? it’s okay to have these kind of fantasies, right? it just makes sense to me that this is exactly how I need to be treated. it’s how I know I’m wanted <3
If you’re not willing to abduct, abuse, gaslight and obsess over me until I fall in love with you then I’m not the girl for you.
really needing to be spanked after such a long day, it’s the absolute stress reliever to let my thoughts go so empty with a bruised bum.
such a cute image, especially the look she’s giving him. add the words and you just gave me butterflies, you know?
now this is gorgeous. wow wow wow, I could only wish, you know? what a lucky girl <3
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I wish it was easy to advertise this without people asking if I’m okay. I just want to be someone’s property that they care about, y’know with a cute collar. <3
hey ummm what’s it called when i wanna be kidnapped and chained up in a cage in someone’s basement and kept as a pretty lil pet??
hi yes, this is absolutely one of the most romantic things I’ve ever heard of and I absolutely love this. I literally love all of this so so much so thank you for verbalizing this 💖
all of my problems would be solved if i got kidnapped i think. thinking about someone wanting me so bad they go through all that work to sweep me up from my life? very cute
kidnapping is the new romance
happy friends make me happy :)
I tried to scroll past this. I really did
sometimes I just need to be bred extremely good but I don’t wanna deal with consequences for my breeding kink you know? <3
it’s been awhile and since someone asked for me to do this, I figured it would be fun to post this on my blog for now! I’m not sure how accurate these things are but it’s fun! :)