If You Wanted To Smack It Against My Face A Little Bit Too, That Sounds Really Nice To Please!

oh. I like this a very very lot.

So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

consent is literally essential. without consent, no fun can be had. communication is key and if you can’t understand that then you should not be having this kind of fun.

Shit, are people really taking “men get pegged” as a serious measure of whether a guy is a Good Boyfriend or not?

I assure you earnestly. If your girlfriend tries to pressure you into doing that or insist that you must be afraid of being ~emasculated~ if you don’t want to, it is best to Throw The Whole Woman Away.

In general, like, what sexual acts you are or are not personally comfortable with has exactly fuck all to do with how feminist or progressive you are or whatever. Ffs.

It is a delightful meme but absolutely not an excuse to forget that men, also, get to make the rules about their bodies! and that is final!

big vibes big vibes!!!!! I’m needy and this is absolutely something unreasonable I want!

Yeah you're cute, but can I wake you up at 3am just to hear your voice?

someone who is so in control that they don’t have to be big and loud to asset their control and dominance. oh it’s something magic <3

TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.

Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.

As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.

hi yes, this is absolutely one of the most romantic things I’ve ever heard of and I absolutely love this. I literally love all of this so so much so thank you for verbalizing this 💖

all of my problems would be solved if i got kidnapped i think. thinking about someone wanting me so bad they go through all that work to sweep me up from my life? very cute

kidnapping is the new romance

absolutely!! it’s completely and totally embarrasing to admit how long I’ve actually day dreamed about this exact scenario. >~<

i just want someone to take advantage of how young and naive i am. just slowly start to grope me and tell me that it's normal to let someone touch me like this whenever they want to. then build up to taking off my clothes and having me be naked around you because this is normal and everyone does this. it's normal to let strangers touch me like this and take my clothes off. 🥺👉👈

sometimes I just need to be reminded of my place and take a good punishment <3

if you say “make me” and expect that i won’t bend your bratty ass over my knee and spank you raw then you’re dead wrong

it’s so so cute and like gah it makes me melt every single time <3

Ok but when you’re talking like normal and then Daddy says something sweet and you just melt and your Little slips out and Daddy goes “Ah, there she is. There’s my little one”

🥺🥺🥺

I die. It’s the sweetest thing ever.

it’s been awhile and since someone asked for me to do this, I figured it would be fun to post this on my blog for now! I’m not sure how accurate these things are but it’s fun! :)

feeling small is one of my favorite feelings in the whole world <3