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one of my more embarrassing pleasures! I just like to be treated like a baby who needs to be taken care of you know? I just need praise and guidance to really know what’s good for me <3
It’s so hot when men don’t take me seriously. I can’t help it - when a man simply looks at me and assumes I’m a clueless, helpless little dolt, it makes me melt. It makes me mad, and insults me, and frustrates me… but mostly, it gets me so damn wet.
A condescending, patronizing tone just cuts right through me, making it clear that in his eyes, I’m just a pleasing body and not much of a brain. It’s insulting, demeaning, and I wish I didn’t love it.
But fuck - I do.
Tell me how dumb I am. Roll your eyes at me when I try and show what I know. Mansplain to me and pat me on the head. No matter how hard I try not to, I’ll love you for it.
oh no! I’ve been called out!.. but also. if someone just wanted to keep me compliant and dumb, having something shoved in my mouth usually makes my head pretty fuzzy. <3
I love brats with oral fixations. Letting them push my buttons, tease me, letting them rile me up makes it that much sweeter when they say “make me” and I shove something - anything - in their mouth and watch them instantly melt and do whatever I say
oh, hey wow this is a simply drool worthy thought. 🥰
I’ve been thinking a lot about slipping medicine into your drink so that you’re too much of a groggy dumb baby to get out of bed, that way I can spend all day long having my way with you and exclusively taking care of you.
someone who is so in control that they don’t have to be big and loud to asset their control and dominance. oh it’s something magic <3
TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.
Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.
As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.
oh. I like this a very very lot.
So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.
"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."
Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.
"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."
Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.
Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.
Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.
Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."