This Is A Promise /and/ A Threat 😘

hi yes, this is absolutely one of the most romantic things I’ve ever heard of and I absolutely love this. I literally love all of this so so much so thank you for verbalizing this 💖

all of my problems would be solved if i got kidnapped i think. thinking about someone wanting me so bad they go through all that work to sweep me up from my life? very cute

kidnapping is the new romance

someone who is so in control that they don’t have to be big and loud to asset their control and dominance. oh it’s something magic <3

TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.

Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.

As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.

if you wanted to smack it against my face a little bit too, that sounds really nice to please! <3

sometimes you just want a dick slapped against your tongue a lil bit 🤷🏻‍♂️

feeling small is one of my favorite feelings in the whole world <3

I can only hope I look so patient when I’m waiting for such a treat! I feel like I would be wiggling too much in excitement, you know? <3

now this is gorgeous. wow wow wow, I could only wish, you know? what a lucky girl <3

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consent is the key to fun! literally if you don’t believe in this then please get off my blog 😘

very important info!!! please take this kind of thing seriously please!!

Aftercare. 💙✨

I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.

Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.

Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.

That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.

Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.

I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.

Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.

Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.

That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.

That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.

AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨

it sounds scary, but also.. yes please? it’s okay to have these kind of fantasies, right? it just makes sense to me that this is exactly how I need to be treated. it’s how I know I’m wanted <3

If you’re not willing to abduct, abuse, gaslight and obsess over me until I fall in love with you then I’m not the girl for you.

oh what a wonderful life it would be to own a crane machine for such silly things! I would just wanna play with it with my own plushies but.. it would be a cute idea of how a dolly is picked out to be used by whoever won the game. so many pretty thoughts!