THIS. Currently getting a divorce from a man like this...we've been married for 6 months and I gave him my virginity. Once you lose weight they show their true colors.
i'm not looking for a boy who's going to sexualise my curves, i want someone who i can feel smaller and safer around
not someone who'll tell me "it jiggles when u walk!"
in my personal experience, boys who actively look for girls with curves, aren't looking for girls. they're looking for a good time
I will never shut up about how my mom said i didn't have an €D when I was f4t, even after she saw me eating baby food, going on extreme d13ts, and f4sting all the time. But once my w3ight started dropping off and I got sk1nnier than her, suddenly it's an issue. 😕
Not to mention she was bul1m1c when she was my age. Growing up with your mom competing with you is crazy.
NO FR cause- most of my recent post are about 🌟ving/f4sting but I'm literally eating cake rn...after i said i was gonna start my f4st. Like, the sc4le is going to tell everything 😭👍
i feel like a fake ana sometimes like i literally binge more than i ⭐️ve. im legit binging as we speak like do better
Rate my current safe food stash!!
This (but gender swapped)☝️
I hate seeing how many of us are in similar situations. It actually hurts because everyone here is so sweet and empathetic.
" i st4rv3 to have control " " i st4rv3 to look attractive " i st4rv3 myself to stop having the same body type as my abvs3r .
1. **Disgusting Habits**: Your eating and exercise habits are disgusting. You shovel junk food into your mouth and sit around like a lump. No wonder you feel and look the way you do. It’s gross.
2. **Self-Sabotage**: You’re your own worst enemy. Every time you reach for that junk food or skip a workout, you’re sabotaging yourself. You’re choosing misery over effort. How pathetic is that?
3. **Stop Whining**: You whine about being overweight, but do nothing to change it. You have no one to blame but yourself. Get off your ass and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
4. **Dead Weight**: That’s what you are – dead weight. To yourself, to your family, to your friends. You’re dragging everyone down with your lack of motivation and discipline. Do you want to be the person everyone pities and avoids?
5. **No Self-Respect**: It’s clear you have no respect for yourself. If you did, you wouldn’t treat your body like a garbage dump. Show some self-respect and start taking care of yourself.
6. **Embarrassing**: Your lack of effort is embarrassing. You could change your life, but you choose not to. You choose to stay unhealthy, unattractive, and unhappy. That’s embarrassing.
7. **Quit Being Weak**: You’re being weak. Mentally and physically. Toughen up. Life isn’t going to hand you anything. You have to work for it. Stop being weak and start fighting for your health.
This is your wake-up call. No more coddling. No more excuses. Get up, take action, and prove that you’re not a lost cause.
How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community
Today I found a predator in my DMs. At first I was going to block and ignore but I thought it'd be a good chance to see how these people work and relay it back to you guys bc everyone here deserves to be protected!!
We don't live in a world where random people will want to help enable you 3D for no reason! Ana buddies are a symbiotic relationship. You have something to gain and something to give, it's an equal exchange. Ana coaches are not! Nobody is going to help you for no reason.
Check this person's profile!
Do they have:
No profile picture?
Don't follow anyone?
A random slap-dash username?
No credibility or proof that they are some sort of coach?
That's because, they're a predator, trying to take advantage of your insecure youth! Never give them anything that they can use against you!
This includes:
Pictures
Real names
Real nationalities
Always lace everything you say to them with lies so they don't know the truth!
Or yk, just block them
Heres a step-by-step guide on how a predator will approach you
They'll ask questions to make themselves seem as if this is something they do often.
Questions like:
"Why do you feel like you need to be coached?" "Have you ever been coached before?"
This will lead you into a false sense of security. Don't fall for it!
No matter what your stats are, they'll make you seem like the fattest thing to walk the earth
I told the predator I was observing very average stats, within the healthy BMI for that age and height, and he responded with "You're a very very big girl, aren't you?"
Also, ew creepy
Don't let any man talk to you like this in general. On or offline
Now, don't let it get this far. If you've noticed all the previous red flags block and report.
But here they'll ask for pictures. Getting aggressive when you don't comply
They'll say it's to check your stats or something, don't fall for it
They'll use these images to blackmail you later, this is called "revenge p0rn", stay safe out there
This is going off what I said earlier but, if you don't comply, or even if you do, they'll use ana to blackmail you.
"You need me" "You need my help" "You want it, don't you?"
They want to make it seem as if you need them. But you're strong you don't need a perv to tell you what you need
You're strong enough to know that handouts like these are suspicious and should be dealt with accordingly
These people are predators wanting to prey on children with e4ting disorders and we can't stand for it
If anyone is in a situation they feel like they cannot get out of, comment or DM. I'll respond as fast as I can
And please repost this, so it can reach someone who needs it before it's too late
I'm everyone's older sister, I've decided
anyways, that was
How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community
Stay safe out their my lovelies <33
I hate being f4t, but I still keep eating. What is wrong with me? I know if I eat, I won't lose weight but I still do it. Every. Fucking. Time.
So I decided to stop using hashtags on here because that’s how people get reported I’m pretty sure. Sooo I decided to do this instead!
If you are a weight loss blog, like this post. Using safe words to avoid getting reported. If u wanna repost u can to make it reach more ppl (since I can’t use tags)
If you are looking for mutuals, scroll through the likes and follow ppl :)
This is also for me so I can see who to follow haha but I thought it’d help yall out too! It’s nice having an understanding community and we should all have access to one.