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Today's Lesson is:

How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community

Today I found a predator in my DMs. At first I was going to block and ignore but I thought it'd be a good chance to see how these people work and relay it back to you guys bc everyone here deserves to be protected!!

So

Before we begin!!!! If you're worried that the person in your DM is a predator, they probably are!!!

We don't live in a world where random people will want to help enable you 3D for no reason! Ana buddies are a symbiotic relationship. You have something to gain and something to give, it's an equal exchange. Ana coaches are not! Nobody is going to help you for no reason.

Check this person's profile!

Do they have:

No profile picture?

Don't follow anyone?

A random slap-dash username?

No credibility or proof that they are some sort of coach?

That's because, they're a predator, trying to take advantage of your insecure youth! Never give them anything that they can use against you!

This includes:

Pictures

Real names

Real nationalities

Always lace everything you say to them with lies so they don't know the truth!

Or yk, just block them

Heres a step-by-step guide on how a predator will approach you

Number 1: Vague Psuedo-Professionalism

They'll ask questions to make themselves seem as if this is something they do often.

Questions like:

"Why do you feel like you need to be coached?"

"Have you ever been coached before?"

This will lead you into a false sense of security. Don't fall for it!

Number 2: Body-Shaming

No matter what your stats are, they'll make you seem like the fattest thing to walk the earth

I told the predator I was observing very average stats, within the healthy BMI for that age and height, and he responded with

"You're a very very big girl, aren't you?"

Also, ew creepy

Don't let any man talk to you like this in general. On or offline

Number 3: Pictures

Now, don't let it get this far. If you've noticed all the previous red flags block and report.

But here they'll ask for pictures. Getting aggressive when you don't comply

They'll say it's to check your stats or something, don't fall for it

They'll use these images to blackmail you later, this is called "revenge p0rn", stay safe out there

Number 4: Blackmail

This is going off what I said earlier but, if you don't comply, or even if you do, they'll use ana to blackmail you.

"You need me"

"You need my help"

"You want it, don't you?"

They want to make it seem as if you need them. But you're strong you don't need a perv to tell you what you need

You're strong enough to know that handouts like these are suspicious and should be dealt with accordingly

These people are predators wanting to prey on children with e4ting disorders and we can't stand for it

If anyone is in a situation they feel like they cannot get out of, comment or DM. I'll respond as fast as I can

And please repost this, so it can reach someone who needs it before it's too late

I'm everyone's older sister, I've decided

anyways, that was

How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community

Stay safe out their my lovelies <33

HELP

Low-cal meals that are my go to🤍

So here are a few low-calorie meals that I heavily depend on, and they are each under 100 c@lories:

1. Cucumber and Hummus Bites

Ingredients:

- 1 small cucumber (16 c@lories)

- 2 tablespoons of hummus (60 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Slice the cucumber into rounds.

2. Top each cucumber slice with a small dollop of hummus.

2. Egg White Scramble

Ingredients:

- 3 egg whites (51 c@lories)

- 1/4 cup chopped spinach (2 c@lories)

- 1/4 cup diced tomatoes (5 c@lories)

- Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

1. Spray a non-stick pan with cooking spray.

2. Scramble the egg whites with spinach and tomatoes over medium heat until cooked through.

3. Season with salt and pepper.

3. Strawberry and Cottage Cheese

Ingredients:

- 1/4 cup low-fat cottage cheese (40 c@lories)

- 1/4 cup sliced strawberries (13 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Combine the cottage cheese and strawberries in a bowl.

2. Mix well and enjoy.

4. Zucchini Noodles with Tomato Sauce

Ingredients:

- 1 cup spiralized zucchini (20 c@lories)

- 1/4 cup marinara sauce (40 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Heat the marinara sauce in a small pan.

2. Add the zucchini noodles and cook for 2-3 minutes until tender.

5. Celery and Peanut Butter

Ingredients:

- 2 large celery sticks (10 c@lories)

- 1 teaspoon natural peanut butter (32 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Spread the peanut butter on the celery sticks.

2. Enjoy as a crunchy, satisfying snack.

6. Greek Yogurt and Blueberries

Ingredients:

- 1/4 cup non-fat Greek yogurt (25 c@lories)

- 1/4 cup fresh blueberries (21 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Mix the Greek yogurt and blueberries together in a bowl.

2. Serve chilled.

7. Veggie Soup

Ingredients:

- 1/2 cup diced tomatoes (15 c@lories)

- 1/2 cup chopped celery (8 c@lories)

- 1/2 cup chopped carrots (25 c@lories)

- 1 cup vegetable broth (10 c@lories)

Instructions:

1. Combine all ingredients in a pot and bring to a boil.

2. Simmer for 10-15 minutes until vegetables are tender.

I only eat these when I desperately need to take my vitamins or most of the time I'm too lazy so I jus don't cook and take a nap instead or drink a 0 c@l drink.

i love her a normal amount (im unhealthily obsessed)

felt

Remember everyone:

the second you drop the act— you ruin everyone else’s lives too!

don’t be openly unhappy, confrontational, broken, as it disturbs the others. Honesty ruins everything! Keep it to yourself! Suffer in silence the way God intended!

i so want to be skinnier but i don’t wanna lose my boobs 😭😭😭

i look so bad tan 😭 also kinda bodycheck sorta

how the hell can I figure out a good angle for pictures omg

I wanna be able to see my ribs again so bad but I dont wanna lose my boobs or butt so im scarsd of losing more weight 🙁

this is mostly directed towards the 3d babes but like..

idk where y'all are getting that obesity is "glorified" in our society?

I really don't think obesity is promoted in our society, or at least not in the way that people say it is. I think it's a much more sinister reflection on capitalism.

1) obesity is something that systemically affects poorer communities because the food they can afford is worse for them.

2) we have created a society that makes it extremely hard to afford the time to exercise, eat properly, take care of your family, take care of yourself, and deal with all the other stressors of life. a top contributor to obesity is stress, and that's not to be taken lightly.

3) people who are even a little overweight are proven to be treated worse in the medical industry.

so these people get stuck in a loop of eating things that aren't good for them, stressing out constant, and then paying a bunch for often expensive and ineffective medical help, eating the same shit, stressing, and coming back, over and over again.

but when you go to a doctor, and you are even a little high on the BMI scale (which is an inaccurate system anyways) they will treat you like shit, often ignoring conditions that have nothing to do with your weight, even if they are life threatening. I've experienced it myself and watched my family experience it.

this is all to say that saying obesity is being glorified, or saying that being anorexic is healthier than being obese (which is factually untrue, you can die from anorexia way easier and way quicker than being obese) is just a reflection of not thinking deeper about these issues, and not caring about people struggling.

when you see a large group of people engaging in a destructive behavior and your first thought isn't "why?" but to rather hate on the people suffering, there is a problem there.

you are not better than anyone else for struggling with an eating disorder. you are not better than someone who "lets food control their life." food controls your life too, because you are still constantly thinking about it and restricting and counting calories and obsessing. if anything, it takes up way more space in your head than it does theirs.

the enemy shouldn't be each other, it should be capitalism. the same people that make you feel like shit so badly you abstain from one of the basic things needed to live are the same people who are systemically causing obesity to profit off of people's suffering. they make us hate each other because a society divided on every front is easier to control and make money off of.

you are a victim. and so are they. we all are.

to my younger mutuals and basically anyone younger (teens, etc.) in the shblr community:

if you’re posting thigh cuts, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT BE BUTT ASS NAKED OR POST URSELF IN JUST YOUR UNDERWEAR ‼️‼️

I’ve seen SO MANY younger ppl do this and it makes me so sad because teens already get preyed on enough in these spaces.

Stay safe pls 🫶🫶