There’s So Much Power In Knowing Your Power. Knowing That You Can Control What You Give Your Energy

how romanticizing everything changed my life

- i started to feel beautiful every day. i fell in love with my features and stopped having desires to make changes such as surgery, extensions etc.

- my personality improved drastically. i’m a fun loving girl that enjoys making people laugh and feel good about themselves, and people gravitate towards me for it

- my limiting beliefs decreased immensely. gone were the days of thinking someone else was better suited for the thing i wanted to do, i’m the perfect girl for the job

- i stopped letting what people could *possibly* think about me, hinder me. i can’t read minds. i don’t know what anyone truly thinks….so i’m not going to attempt to

- i finally cultivated a personal style that makes me feel gorgeous. i wear what makes me feel most comfortable and cute!

- i became better at prioritizing rest and relaxation. getting my brows threaded, getting pedicures, watching movies, taking naps. i feel guilt free doing all of those things. i love putting in work, but i need my body to be a well oiled machine in order to really get it all done.

- i let go of the idea that i needed to *act* a certain way be feminine. yes i love pink. do i NEED to wear pink to be feminine? of course not. the things i wear are just outward expressions of my innate femininity. they are not the source of it.

it’s comforting to know that the universe prefers life over death. they are constantly evolving animals to survive longer, one creatures death will allow for the continuation of another’s life, everything will collapse in on itself some day so that a new life could be created all over again. the universe is addicted to living, so when u make someone’s life easier to live you are literally doing gods work 

I'm so tired of helping people around me and not getting anything back. I spend hours listening to my friends when they aren't okay and not even getting a thank you. Im not asking for much, just that you appreciate that i'm taking my time to help you. Most people is so into their little world that they dont realize the ones helping are suffering too

living in a two-storey house, spending a lot of time outside, reading sitting on the grass, playing with my cat, and cooking near the big open window

“And I say to myself: A moon will rise from my darkness.
 وأَقول لنفسِي: سَيطلعُ مِن عَتْمَتِي قَمَر.”

— Mahmoud Darwish

𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭 "𝐈𝐓" 𝐆𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟐

It’s always been my dream to be viewed as a living goddess. When anyone encounters me, I want them to feel as though they have just come in contact with an ethereal being. Someone who is so uniquely feminine, elegant, skillful, kind, elegant, and charming. I want them to be captivated by my beauty and enraptured by my intellect. There is no spell that can accomplish this. Only dedicated and precise hard work. You have to be dedicated. You have to show up for yourself every day, even when you’re tired. Even when you’re sad. Even when you feel totally uninspired. Put in the work for what you want. Here is your guide.

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Consider your diet. Be mindful of how much you’re eating. Try to stray away from overeating. You should cut back on the amount of sugar and processed foods that you eat (cut back ≠ cut out). Make sure you are getting enough greens, protein and fruits.

Drink at minimum 3L water.

Incorporate daily fresh pressed juices.

Drink hot tea.

Keep alcoholic beverage consumption to a minimum.

Take daily vitamins and supplements.

Exercise 5 times a week at minimum, even if it’s only 30 minutes on the treadmill. Do something that will help you maintain your weight and your figure. The goal is to maintain a tight and toned figure.

Incorporate a consistent stretching routine into your daily routine. Stretching lengthens limbs and improves gracefulness.

Play tennis in warm weather and start learning how to play golf.

Go on walks whenever you’re not in the gym. Fresh air is good for longevity.

Get chiropractic adjustments and massages to keep the muscles limber and free of tension

Clear face and body of acne and hyperpigmentation.

Get skincare treatments that help the skin look clear, radiant, and age gracefully.

Practice consistent oral hygiene routine: whitening mouthwash + floss + scrub tongue + brush teeth + act fluoride rinse mouthwash

Get a teeth whitening kit and start drinking through a straw so you don’t stain your teeth.

Stick to a consistent bathing routine.The body should be exfoliated and shaved 2-3 times a week. Use kojie san soap to maintain skin’s even complexion. Use a yoni shower gel for the vaginal area. Use exfoliating gloves + exfoliating cloth to wash with. Scrub feet to maintain between pedicures.

Post shower (spring/summer): hempz body lotion (add glycerin) + avene body oil + dove dry spray + (pink rosa) + femme rejuv oil + perfume oil + fragrance of the day

Post shower (autumn/winter): hempz body lotion (add glycerin) + cerave healing ointment + dove dry spray (vanilla + cocoa butter) + femme rejuv oil + perfume oil + fragrance of the day

Stay on top of wellness check ups:

Physical

Vision

Dental

OBGYN

Derm

Start taking care of your natural hair. Get a relaxer with every 10-12 weeks. Get sew-ins with closures/ minimal leave out to grow hair. Box braids and feed in braids for the summer time with. Deep condition hair under the dryer whenever not in protective styles. Dye your hair back black for a more classic + natural look.

Start using hair perfume

Once a month, get a deluxe pedicure at Bally once a month

soft pink for spring

white for summer

french pedi with fleshy pink base for summer

black for halloween

red for the holidays

Do gel manicures at home with a gel mani kit

Milky white

Baby pink

Baby blue

French

Red for the holidays

Keep eyebrows groomed - trim them every 2-3x weeks

Get your lashes done every month and fill ins as necessary at LaLa Lash. Always go for the classic style

Keep your makeup natural. Do not paint your face. You should look as natural and real to you as possible. For night time or special occasions, of course you can do a little more like a sultry look. Your makeup should just enhance your natural beauty and the work that you’ve put in to have good skin.

Makeup routine:

Primer + powder to prep

Lighter concealer for under eyes to brighten

Perfectly matched foundation

Concealer closer to your skin tone for any other inconsistencies

Powder foundation to set the makeup

Bronzer to warm up the face

Fill in your brows lightly and conceal to clean up

A little bronzer on the lids

Lash extensions should be done but if not, lashes that look natural or mascara

Top off with a neutral lipstick or a gloss

It’s critical to keep on top of your beauty treatments so they don’t pile up and your look remains consistent.

♡

The sun watches what I do, but the moon knows my secrets.

my formula for success

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no bullshit,

straight-to-the-point

manifesting guide

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Disclaimer: this post is about my personal experience, beliefs and what works for me. If you don't resonate with what I'm saying it's totally fine, you keep doing you.

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living in your head

doesn't mean being delusional, or crazy. imagination is the only reality. as simple as that. the faster you realize it the better things will be.

detachment

I've noticed that being objective of certain aspects of my desires had led me to instant success. but detachment from what? not from the desire itself but from the need of getting it. realizing that i don't desperatly need something somehow makes things easier and faster. lessening the importance of getting certain things makes you free from anxiety and fear, in my personal experience. and why would you be anxious about getting something you already have (see living in your head and daydreaming). go on with your day and stop sulking.

keeping it simple

if it feels like a chore, it won't do it for me. the simpler the better. only affirm or do methods when i want and feel like it. don't force it.

daydreaming

again, I'm a sucker for effortless stuff. for me, daydreaming has always been something natural to do. and if you can see and imagine yourself living your best life then you can have everything.

you do it to yourself

what you see is a reflection of your thoughts. you can't complain and ask why things are "not working" when you are the one who is in control. if you think you can't manifest, you won't. if you think manifesting is hard, it will be. you want to manifest effortlessly and fast, then say you can. you don't like something? change it.

don't question it

don't question how it works or how long it will take. don't question if you can get it or not. doubting is a waste of time. just trust that drive that won't make you give up your dreams.

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@bastarrda

Manifesting rant🥂

You can have what you want. So please stop with the imposter syndrome and with the “if it’s meant to be” shit. Get that out of your head. You can have what you want because you are the creator of your reality. Stop putting so much value on material objects and jobs etc and place that value on yourself. Do you want what you are asking for??? If yes, then affirm that it’s yours and go on with your life and don’t start that nonsense of “if it’s in God’s will thennn”...like omg do you know what God is capable of creating??? Receiving a billion in cash is probably so boring for God to create. What we want seems so big for us but God’s like “wow, this is a snooze fest, can they ask me for something bigger🙄👀”. People are too scared to ask God for what they want but are also fully aware that God created dinosaurs and mountains and the ocean. Like how the fuck do you even come up with that?🤕

Dream huge, ask for a lot. Manifest the fuck out of your life. Get what you want. Earth is yours. The universe is yours. What you want is just an object, it’s just a house, it’s just a car. Having a good time on Earth is your birthright.

Also stop being humble and modest while you’re at it. You don’t earn any brownie points thinking you need to act that way. You deserve so much more than what you ask God/people/the universe for.