I deserve to be seen. I deserve to be valued. I deserved to be loved. I deserve to be appreciated. I deserve to have my needs met. I deserve to feel completely and utterly held. I deserve to be deserving of the incredible love I give to others.
saw this one joke that "affirming for anything feels like gaslighting yourself". law of assumption doesn't teach you to ignore or deny your feelings, it simply teaches you that you're god & your thoughts don't control you, you control them. you don't have to 'gaslight' yourself into thinking that everything in your 3D is fine. instead know that :
there's no need to be angry or frustrated at yourself for what you've manifested. it was your creation & you can recreate or uncreate it in the same way using your thoughts.
the 3D is not your enemy. you live in the end because you don't hold a grudge against yourself for creating this current circumstance in the first place. you accept your responsibility & focus on what you want instead. you know that your 3D is constantly shifting & has to always conform to your affirmations eventually.
you're allowed to react & it doesn't have to affect any of your manifestations if you assume the same. cry, have a proper disney princess style breakdown, it's okay if it lasts for hours or days, but when you're done, you're done. pick yourself up & persist again.
why will you always get your desires? because you're worthy & you deserve to, that's why. also because you're a god who came here to experience love, peace, luxury, orgasms, happiness, cats, good food, health & success. there's nothing wrong in knowing what you deserve. let this be the reason why you know you will always get what you desire. ♡
AFFIRMATIONS TO MANIFEST YOUR SP
· i am living the most beautiful love, sp writes me letters, sp kisses my hands, sp reads to me, sp leaves me notes, sp dances with me, sp gives me everything i want and more
· sp consistently gives me passionate love
· sp simply enjoys having me living on their mind every second of their day
· sp's love for me is so genuine, pure and beautiful
· sp prays for my well being in every aspect of life always
· sp genuinely loves me with their whole soul and heart
· sp always opens up to me, sp expresses their feelings for me genuinely, sp always needs to tell me and show me how important i am for them
· sp knows how wonderful life is because i exist
· sp wants me so bad, sp wants to be in my heart, sp wants to belong in my heart
· sp is crazy for me, sp loves me crazily
· there is nothing in this world that sp wouldn't do for me
· sp doesn't hesitate any second to show me how worthy i am of all the best in the world
· sp wants to give me all his time and all his attention always
· i'm always on sp's mind, i'm always on sp's thoughts
· sp is texting me, calling me and checking on me all the time
· sp adores loving me, sp desires me crazily and deeply
· sp is obsessed with me in the most healthy and beautiful way
· sp can't think in anything else except me because sp simply doesn't want to stop thinking about me any second
· sp loves me with every cell of their body
· sp's soul desires my soul
Specific person affirmations
♡ my sp calls me and messages me everyday
♡ my sp is always thinking of me
♡ I am everything my sp ever wanted
♡ my sp dreams about me every night
♡ my sp thinks i am the only right person for them
♡ i feel so loved when i am with my sp
♡ my sp wants me to be with them forever
♡ me and my sp have the perfect relationship
♡ my sp is so obsessed with me
♡ my sp always takes care of me
♡ my sp makes me feel safe
♡ my sp loves spending time with me
♡ my sp just can’t get enough of me
♡ i am the best thing that ever happened to my sp
This is one of the most effective boosters in manifesting. This can help you with your self concept and train your mind to become powerful, quick and helping.
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𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 :
ask yourself questions about your desires/manifestation "Why do I look very ethereal?" , "Why am I so tall?" , etc.
𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 :
affirm / remind yourself of who you want to be (who you are) or what do you want to have (what you have) "I grew 10 inches taller just by sleeping" , "I am the most beautiful person in the world" "I'm a badass independent person" , etc.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 : [personally] it actually helps me to detach and not be so obsessed or working very pathetically hard to get my desires. because i do this everyday, me listening to subliminals became not too frequent/only if i feel like listening to or if i'm going somewhere and also since i do this everytime before sleeping and opening my eyes in the morning, i feel like i'm just reminding myself and yeah, detach.
i'm currently working on what my desired appearance should be but the manifestations i got is i feel like i really grew taller and my old emotions, feelings and reactions are slowly sinking and fading to changing in my desired set of reactions (cuz i want to be a female version of jotaro kujo, risotto nero, kaneki ken those anime boys who is known for being cold, smart and stoic)
To end this blog, I hope this booster can help you <3
initially when i started affirming, i had extreme self-worth & self esteem issues. i struggled with being overweight & couldn't really say the "i am" affirmations without my body literally rejecting it. i found a way that helped me so much. when i first started consciously affirming, i wrote down my affirmations : "i am beautiful", "i am healthy & glowing", "i am worthy of deserving love in every body shape or form" , "i have the body of a goddess" , "i have a tiny waist" etc
i felt so fucking disconnected & the affirmations seemed so far away from who i genuinely felt like in the moment. it felt unnatural & delusional. ofcourse i had just learned about the law & did not honestly trust it wholeheartedly. i would speak my affirmations into the mirror, but with a twist - instead of "i am", i flipped my affirmations to "you are". pointing to the mirror i would say - "you are beautiful", "you're stunning", "you have the body of a goddess", "you absolutely deserve everything you desire", "you're a powerful manifester" etc.
why this feels easier to me : the "i am" statements put pressure on you to feel confident & secure when really you don't feel like that's you in the moment. "you are" statements help you detach from your current state & it feels way easier to compliment someone else than yourself if you've had a pattern of self worth issues. so imagine this as a conversation in the mirror with someone you love and trust (aka the new you!) , reminding them of what they deserve. you can eventually switch to "i am" affirmations when you feel comfortable or confident enough. you are actually worthy of everything you desire & active unlearning of self hatred & old assumptions is important but don't be hard on yourself! it takes a lot of guts to rewrite new assumptions over shitty old stories. i'm glad you're doing that. i'm so proud of you!
also!!!! feel free to affirm whatever, however & whenever you feel like. affirm in the language & tone you feel most comfortable in. affirming may feel uncomfortable in the beginning because you're rewriting years worth of shitty thought patterns & your brain will go 'wtf' at times. so what do you do? keep affirming! you won't feel like this forever! and don't worry about the tense. if you're someone who feels like "it is done" feels like a scam or doesn't feel real, you can still affirm, "i know i'm gonna get my desire, it has no other choice" or "my manifestation is coming to me any minute now, it's already mine!" you can affirm in the future, past, present, whatever tense you want to. make your own rules & learn what works best for you!
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・❥・ Since others have come out to spread misinformation about self concept i thought it would be ideal for me to come out and set some things straight about this topic at hand. ・❥・
SELF CONCEPT WILL AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES TO THE LAW ASSUMPTION!!
*ೃ༄ Self concept all comes down to the beliefs you have picked up as a child, whether your environment made you feel unsafe or unworthy, loved, chosen, etc. these feelings as a child would have hardened into solid beliefs that you now have as an adult that manifest into your 3D to mirror and prove those beliefs and fears you have about yourself *ೃ༄
Self concept is the core beliefs that continue to manifest in to your reality, whether you are experiencing favourable or unfavourable circumstances is all down to your self concept.
But let me remind you:
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT SELF LOVE
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT SELF ESTEEM
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT HEALING YOUR INNER CHILD
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT CONFIDENCE
Self concept is all about your self constructed beliefs you have formed about yourself and how you personally see the world around you.
Am i saying that a perfect self concept is compulsory in order to manifest?
No of course not. We have manifested all our lives despite our flawed self concept but what i am saying that it’s important in order to keep your manifestations, and improve your ability to unconsciously manifest more well-lived favourable circumstances.
All your current thoughts right now stem from your self concept so therefore your self concept is the key to solving all your unfavourable circumstances.
*ೃ༄ Think about it? Are you manifesting your sp back? Why did things go tits up with them in the first place? Where you imagining and dominantly thinking they would leave and abandon you? Look back and see why those thoughts were so dominantly thought by you. Did you feel abandoned or rejected as a child? Did that make you not feel chosen or wanted as child? If so that’s exactly what you need to work on. *ೃ༄
“Everything depends upon our attitude towards ourselves. That which we will not affirm as true of ourselves cannot develop in our life.”
- Neville Goddard
This is the equation, you need to get to the root of what your circumstances mean. Do you feel worthy? Wanted? Seen? Heard?
How do expect to be loved by you sp? Chosen by your sp? First best to your sp if your dominant assumptions are that you’re unloved, not chosen, and last to be ever thought about?
And this isn’t just about love either, it’s also about your relationship with money, men, women, family, with your career , your health, mental health, etc. Whether these areas of your life are good or unpleasant is all down to your self concept.
So yes, your self concept is and always will be the key to everything.
“To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself. If you will not imagine yourself as other than you are, then you remain as you are.”
- Neville Goddard
・❥・ Since others have come out to spread misinformation about self concept i thought it would be ideal for me to come out and set some things straight about this topic at hand. ・❥・
SELF CONCEPT WILL AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT WHEN IT COMES TO THE LAW ASSUMPTION!!
*ೃ༄ Self concept all comes down to the beliefs you have picked up as a child, whether your environment made you feel unsafe or unworthy, loved, chosen, etc. these feelings as a child would have hardened into solid beliefs that you now have as an adult that manifest into your 3D to mirror and prove those beliefs and fears you have about yourself *ೃ༄
Self concept is the core beliefs that continue to manifest in to your reality, whether you are experiencing favourable or unfavourable circumstances is all down to your self concept.
But let me remind you:
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT SELF LOVE
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT SELF ESTEEM
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT HEALING YOUR INNER CHILD
SELF CONCEPT IS NOT CONFIDENCE
Self concept is all about your self constructed beliefs you have formed about yourself and how you personally see the world around you.
Am i saying that a perfect self concept is compulsory in order to manifest?
No of course not. We have manifested all our lives despite our flawed self concept but what i am saying that it’s important in order to keep your manifestations, and improve your ability to unconsciously manifest more well-lived favourable circumstances.
All your current thoughts right now stem from your self concept so therefore your self concept is the key to solving all your unfavourable circumstances.
*ೃ༄ Think about it? Are you manifesting your sp back? Why did things go tits up with them in the first place? Where you imagining and dominantly thinking they would leave and abandon you? Look back and see why those thoughts were so dominantly thought by you. Did you feel abandoned or rejected as a child? Did that make you not feel chosen or wanted as child? If so that’s exactly what you need to work on. *ೃ༄
“Everything depends upon our attitude towards ourselves. That which we will not affirm as true of ourselves cannot develop in our life.”
- Neville Goddard
This is the equation, you need to get to the root of what your circumstances mean. Do you feel worthy? Wanted? Seen? Heard?
How do expect to be loved by you sp? Chosen by your sp? First best to your sp if your dominant assumptions are that you’re unloved, not chosen, and last to be ever thought about?
And this isn’t just about love either, it’s also about your relationship with money, men, women, family, with your career , your health, mental health, etc. Whether these areas of your life are good or unpleasant is all down to your self concept.
So yes, your self concept is and always will be the key to everything.
“To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself. If you will not imagine yourself as other than you are, then you remain as you are.”
- Neville Goddard
Miss steal the spotlight 🌟
Star girl effect ✨️
Everywhere I go , they all know my name. A girl like me can never go unnoticed with her magnetic personality and tantalising beauty. I was born with star quality and my aura shines bright, it catches everyone's attention. I'm the ultimate fantasy, I'm a star girl, im everyone's dream girl.
There's something about me that stands out which is why im known as an IT GIRL, I'm unique and unforgettable, I stick in people's minds with my powerful presence and my addictive beauty, and I naturally inspire them. Im so iconic that people try to copy me bc they're so inspired by me, but no one does it better than me 💅🏻
I'm easily the most charismatic icon, my presence alone has people fangirling about me. Idk why, but my energy is so addictive everyone ends up being obsessed with me the moment they see me, or meet me, or even hear about me. People love bringing me up in conversations talking about how pretty , smart, lucky, rich, and attractive I am. They literally brag about knowing me or being in my presence bc it's a privilege to know me personally.
My reputation is powerful, I'm known as the prettiest, most desired girl. The girl both men and women swoon over and simp for. The girl everyone falls in love with. In a group I'm always the one who steals the spotlight, not only do I catch people's attention but also their interest bc im so intriguingly mysterious. They'd literally beg for my attention like "please notice me!!😭" like whys everyone so desperate for me?
I have secret admirers everywhere I go. Everyone can't help but fall under my spell, they crave my presence ,they yearn for me, they're constantly seeking my attention and validation. People keep inviting me bc my presence alone makes everything 10000x times better , they love having me around. Im such an entertainer. I'm the life of the party, the main event, the main character and the main attraction. I'm a magnetic force and a powerful goddess. People feel lucky and blessed to even know me.
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so maybe you‘ve come across the literally HUNDREDS of techniques, tips, tricks even full blown love spells to manifest a specific person, and now you’re confused on exactly how to manifest a specific person. or maybe you are completely new to this and have no idea how to begin? well no need to worry, bc i will be showing you EXACTLY how to manifest your specific person !!
(note: in this post i refer to manifesting a specific person (SP) in a romantic sense, however you can adjust to fit a platonic relationship to!)
before you even begin manifesting your SP, i highly recommend working on your self concept. i go much more into detail about this in this post, but in short: how you view yourself is how the world views you, including your SP. a big mistake that a lot of people make when manifesting an SP is that they put WAYY too much focus on their SP, meaning that they tend to put a lot of energy into changing their SP’s thoughts, feelings, actions etc. “but wait isn’t this what we’re supposed to do??” i know, it sounds pretty counter-intuitive, but according to the law of assumption: everything comes from WITHIN you, not from the outside. so instead of worrying about if your SP likes you or how they treat you in the 3d, FIRST WORK ON YOURSELF!! ask yourself “how do i want this person to view ME?” “how do i want to feel?” and in a broader sense, work on your self-concept in regards to your power! realize that it is EASY to manifest an SP, that you are the creator and the most powerful in your reality!!
so for this section, i’ll be listing some general self-concept affirmations. i suggest picking just a few and repeat them for a few days to a week, it will help you immensely and make a WORLD of a difference! take your focus off your SP in this time period and ONLY work on yourself!
everything works out in my favor
my life is perfect, everything goes my way
the 3d conforms to all of my desires
i have the perfect self-concept
i am so loved and worthy of all my desires
everybody loves and adores me
i am so cherished
i am satisfied in all of my relationships
ok now to the part you’ve been waiting for: how to get your SP to show up in the 3d exactly the way you want them too. here's a simple step by step guide to doing just this!
(note: once again i STRONGLY recommend working on self concept alongside this as it will make this a million times easier!)
I. DECIDE
first i want you to take a second to really think about your SP. how do you want them to feel about you? how do you want them to treat you? come up with some ideas and answers for these questions and decide that this is what you want to manifest from your SP. here are a few suggestions:
they are madly in love you, head over heels for you, constantly thinking about you, talks about you all the time, loves spending time with you, always texting and calling you, flirts with you, is always there for you, gentle and kind, gives you 100% of their attention, completely devoted to you, wants to be in a committed relationship w you, meets you in your ideal way (if you haven’t met them yet), etc.
II. ASSUME + KNOW + PERSIST
now that you have decided how you want them to show up, i want you to get into the state of knowing that this is how they’ll show up from now on. that no matter WHAT the current circumstances are, even if they hate your guts, they will eventually conform to your desires. remember: everyone is YOU pushed out!! they have no choice but to conform, this is the law! ignore any undesirable circumstance that may occur and keep persisting in the assumption that they will/already are the person that you desire them to be!! don't give up and spiral if something discouraging happens, just turn your focus within and keep going. the law is foolproof you guys, trust in this fact.
in this section, i’ll be giving you some affirmations specifically for a specific person! (you can replace “my sp” with their name). same as the first section, just pick a few and be sure to repeat them as if it’s 100% a fact (bc it is!!)
my SP is so deeply in love with me
my SP treats me exactly the way i want them to
my SP is crazy about me (in a good way lol)
my SP talks to me 24/7
my SP chases ME
my SP is dying to ask me out and spend time with me
i am always on my SP's mind
my SP craves my attention and love
i am their dream partner
Q: i’ve been affirming for ____ weeks and there’s still no movement?
A: you’re focusing WAY too much on the 3d and time. you affirm and “persist” and then you look straight to the outside and get discourage when you see no movement. also there’s ALWAYS movement whether you can see it visibly or not. so walk by faith, not by sight!! plus, when you say there’s “no movement” you’re actually affirming even more evidence of “no movement.” instead start affirming for quick consistent movement, or better yet don't even worry about the time and when it's coming. it WILL come and that's all that matters !
Q: how do i manifest them texting me, following me on insta, confessing to me, asking me out etc.
A: refer back to section 2. you manifest EVERYTHING the same way and each manifestation is just as simple and easy as the other. don't over complicate it! just assume and know that it'll happen/it's already been done.
Q: how do i know if i'm putting my sp on a pedestal?
A: you know based on how you view them. if you view them as someone who is unattainable, out of reach, above your league, etc, then you are putting them on a pedestal. you unconsciously assume that they are too hard to manifest, therefore that is what manifests. another way to tell is if you feel desperate and needy for them. as if you depend on them for your own satisfaction and happiness and if they don't show up how you want them to you immediately spiral. so my advice would be to work on you self-concept babe...put yourself back on top!
Q: i'm not a fan of affirming. what are some other techniques i can use?
A: you can visualize, do the SATS method, lullaby method, the void state, command your subconscious, listen to subliminals, or any other technique you want! the most important thing to remember with techniques is that YOU are the one who gives the technique power. if you assume that a method will work instantly, then it 1000% will!
Q: is there any point where i should just give up and move on?
A: it would actually be best keep persisting UNLESS of course this person is harming you physically or mentally. but if the reason why you want to give up and move on is because it's "too hard" and you keep looking to the 3d for validation, then i would suggest that you take a short "break" from manifesting you SP specifically, and work on your self-concept as i stated in section 1. remember: persistence an knowing is key, the 3d will conform no matter what!!
to wrap up just remember that you can manifest ANYTHING! manifesting an SP is just as easy as manifesting a penny on the ground. they are just another person and you are literally the GOD of your reality!! they are lucky to have YOU. they are chasing YOU. you are THEIR prize!! don't forget your place my love <3