Maverick1277 - A Man With A Great Appreciation Of The Feminine

This is definitely worth a reblog.

Trad Husbands

Traditional Husbands also have a huge part to play in a traditional marriage, although it’s not acknowledged by many of traditional individuals. So here’s a small list of the traditional husbands duties :

Make your wife feel protected, whether she’s with you or not.

Do the heavy lifting and fixing jobs around the house for your wife.

Always greet your wife with a kiss

Set an example to your daughter/s what a boyfriend should be like, and your sons how they should treat women.

Always bring gifts back from long work trips to show your loyalty and appreciation.

Make sure to remind your wife that you love her by taking her on dates, saying “i love you” frequently and holding her when she needs it.

Cater to her emotional and physical needs, like she does for you.

Give her days or time off, especially during pregnancy, birthdays and holidays in general.

This relationship is a balance, she looks good for you so make sure you’re hygienic and groomed for her.

Assure her consistently that she and her kids are completely provided for and protected as long as you live.

Support her in everything she does.

Women are a lot more emotional then their male counterparts so approach arguments and conflicts with caution and care.

Make sure you understand her boundaries and what she considers wrong etc, otherwise you’ll run into many arguments ( and obviously abide by these boundaries ).

Never talk badly to others about your wife. Even to your own parents and children.

This list isn’t all the duties of a traditional working husband, just a small guide. Although men and women aren’t equals, within a relationship it’s a balance. We have to work toward that balance by showing we have equal yet opposing duties.

Life goals!

Things that happened after I became a stay at home wife

1. I rediscovered my beauty. Suddenly I had time to take care of myself. No longer I had eye bags, I could exercise, do my nails, put on face masks. All of this may seem trivial but I was so tired and unhappy with my job and the travel time. I was this beaten up shell of myself just going through life without any care of what may happen to me. I have now time to love me and make me feel beautiful, I act beautiful.

2. My relationship with my husband is stronger now. Nothing says “I trust you” more than just let him take care of me and be my provider and now he is so much more protective and loving. He has always being those things and yet he managed to give more. I learned that when a man feels your trust and how you believe in him, he can not help but cherish you and treasure you, and I can never get tired of that.

3. He is doing so much better at his job and in his life. He gets home now only to rest, no more shared house chores. I remember him every day how great he is and that confidence goes with him everywhere, he had never been this strong and self assured and I cannot help it, I love him more for it. He loves my cooking and he gets it every day, if he’s tired I no longer drop dead next to him in bed, I make him some tea, I give him a massage. We have time to have sex, I want now to have sex (remember, I feel beautiful).

4. I have time to pursue my hobbies. I started this blog, I write poetry, I exercise, I cook new recipes, I’m learning how to sew. I started college again too, even though I’m taking it easy. Since there’s no need for me to work, I study just because it brings me joy, and there’s no need  to rush. I’ll get my degree but my priority is just to be happy. (He has to repeat this in exam season every time though, sadly stress can get a little hard to manage).

I know the most important part of my life, and the reason that we both are so happy is because we deeply love each other, not that I’m homemaker. We would be happy even if something bad happened and I had to go out to work again. There are also woman who find their job meaningful and I will not tell any of them to give it up.

However, if there’s a woman out there who can be at home, who wants to be at home but still is not sure about, talk about it with their partner, most man also want this. Life’s too short to not be happy.

Thank you.

Being a bimbo

What does it mean to me to be a complete bimbo?

Dress and look sexy all the time

Always have my hair and makeup done

Always be horny and ready to please

Always smile

Always agree and be positive

Eat healthy

Stay fit to have the perfect body

Always try to improve myself and be perfect for my partner

Listen to my partner

Obey my partner

Be happy

I’m looking for my good girl. I’ll be there for you on your journey. I promise. 

Why good girls should edge?

Good girls should edge because it makes them needy. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it makes them less selfish. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because orgasm is temporary, but arousal from the edgings is endless. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it helps them to behave. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it disciplines. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it teaches them self-control. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it teaches them to reject their own pleasure. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it makes them humble. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it teaches them patience. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because it shows their place. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because they deserve to be desperate. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because they are much cuter when aroused. I am a good girl.

Good girls should edge because they were told so. I am a good girl.

Planting seeds is ultra-important.

Someone so beautiful needs someone to make her smile or give her memories that will always be happy.

Replaceable

I think as women we need to always remember that we ARE replaceable.I am sure some of you will read this and scoff, “Ha, I am not replaceable. I’m perfect. Tight cunt. Thin. I have all types of men after me.” Sure girly, keep telling yourself that. I know I am far from perfect, but I have never had an issue with finding a man, not being cocky just not naive enough to believe I am undesirable. I’ve finally met my match though, I found someone that I strive to please each day, not just sexually, sure that is great, but even a man with the greatest sex drive will have other needs that he will need fulfilled. Still listening? 

I am reminded each day that if I left tomorrow that there is a line of women ready and willing to take my place. I could go back to man who says he only wants me, or at least attempts to be respectful enough to hide the fact that he is sticking it in someone else, but that isn’t what I want. A dull and meaningless life was never my intentions. I’ve accepted the fact that I will not be the only person He ever buries His cock into, and I’ve never cared much about that until now, when the fear of being replaced is insurmountable. My goal is to be as close to irreplaceable as possible and now I will list the examples of things that any girl who wants to please her Master should always strive to do. 

Always strive to be perfect for him. Work out to be the size that pleases him. Wear make up whenever he is around to hide any imperfections. Find a fragrance he likes and make sure to smell good for him. Do your nails. Get your hair done the way he likes. Always strive for better. 

You know that thing he likes that you just can’t? I mean really, he wants you to deep throat his huge cock? Do it! It’s not going to be easy, but it will be worth it. Anal? Seriously, do it! Remember you are replaceable. You may not want that cock in you like that, but there are plenty others who’d beg for it. His pleasure should come first.

Fill his stomach. Something that will never go out of style to men, is a woman who can cook. What person wants to eat fast food the rest of their life? They say a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, well fuck I don’t know about that, but if you keep him fed he will keep you around a little longer. 

If he has hobbies and interests, try to join him in them, or at least don’t try to distract him from them. I think it’s important to remember that he is the one that matters and keeping him happy makes you happy. 

Keep his house clean. Apparently, at some point people were told that houses were self cleaning, well they aren’t. A man wants to come home to a nice and clean home. He doesn’t want to worry about what he will be walking into if he decides to bring a friend over. No one likes the dishes piled up, and dirty laundry every where. Clean it up. Keeping his clothes clean and ready for him is also going to be appreciated. 

I am sure that I could go on indefinitely, but if I haven’t got my point across I suppose I never will. 

For those of you who don't know much or anything about Alan Watts, you need to spend some time with his talks. Peel back a layer and there is a some great wisdom there. Like, Oh My Geeze! Mind Blown kind of wisdom.

@Le Cime

How I became a good girl and stopped cumming

When I met my Master, he didn't know he was a master, nor did I know I was a sub. We had both been in vanilla relationships before. I toyed a bit with BDSM sometimes, but it never played a big part in my life. Neither of us had ever heard about denial.

To me, nothing in the world felt better than an orgasm. I had lots of them. Lots and lots. With previous partners I was annoyed with how fast they came (although I didn't complain). I always gave myself numerous orgasms after a partner had cum, because no one could give me better orgasms than me.

I met my Master online. The first time of our relationship we couldn't see each other often, so nearly all of our contact was online. That was hard, but we knew we were made for each other. The good thing about it was that we talked a lot. We trusted each other, and dared to share fantasies we had always kept for ourselves, because previous partners wouldn't have understood them. That's how our D/s relationship started. Over time he became my protecting Daddy and sadistic Master. Just what I needed.

The idea that my Master would control my orgasms turned me on. We agreed that I would cum only when he told me to, and whenever he told me to. I was able to cum by using my fingers, a toy, or just my thoughts. Even his words could be enough to cum. We both loved this game. I learned not to touch myself unless he told me to, which was both very hard and very hot. Sometimes he told me to cum 20 times a day.

But then he wondered what would happen if he would make me cum less. I was shocked. Cum less? What a terribly mean idea, it made me cum on the spot. Could he really do this to me? He could. I went from 20 orgasms a day to 20 a month. I was so frustrated and so aroused all the time. When he gave me permission to cum, it felt so good to finally cum again. When I didn't have permission to cum, it made me feel weirdly proud that I was able to edge and not tip over.

Then the time came that I wasn't happy anymore when he told me to cum. I only did it because he told me to, but I didn't feel like a good, strong, pure, horny girl anymore after cumming. It didn't feel good.

In the beginning I was very proud of not cumming for a week, a month (which seemed almost impossible!), a half year. It seemed a shame to cum again after such a long time. My Master sometimes asked me if I still was okay with this, and yes, I was, I was eager to be the best at not cumming. He never told me 'maybe I'll let you cum if you do this or that', and I was grateful for that. An orgasm would not feel like a reward. I prefer to have his cum as a reward (I guess this is what denial did to me). Nowadays he tells me he doesn't want me to cum anymore, and hearing his words 'just let it fade away, this is not for you' makes my edges even more intense.

The never-ending arousal is addictive, and my frustration from edging is a huge turn-on for my Master (and yes, also for me, though it feels so terrible at the same time). And oh gosh, what a submissive girl I became. My Master cums for the both of us, and I love it. Pleasing him is now the best thing there is, and because he learned himself to edge at a young age, he is able to last long, so I can enjoy him for a long time before he finally gives me my reward, his cum. It made our bond so strong. We were both easily distracted by others with previous partners, but we've been together for years now and still crave each other so much. We can give each other what we need.

When I started this journey, I couldn't find any information on what denial would do for me in the long term. Would it harm me? Would it do me good? I can imagine that more girls, women have the same question. I haven't cum for 5,5 years now. It didn't harm me at all. It made me strong, focused, confident, incredibly horny and submissive to my Master. And I like that a lot.

And my body became so sensitive. For example, before I started experimenting with denial, my breasts weren't sensitive at all. It's incredible how that has changed. I can edge by rubbing spots between my breasts, above my tailbone, on the top of my head. It's like having clits all over my body. I know, it sounds a bit strange, but it feels so good, and just imagine how much fun it is for my Master.

I let my Master control my orgasms, which meant that I had to learn to control myself better. Maybe self-control doesn't sound sexy, but it made my sex life better, and it made me more confident in other aspects of my life.

Do I think I'd still be able to cum? Yes, I do. I don't know what an orgasm feels like anymore (that thought arouses me), but I think I'd still be able to have one if I really wanted to.

But why would I?