An Option To Consider Next Time He Asks You To Make A Sandwich.

Are there words in the English language that could possibly and adequately capture how perfectly beautify she is? I believe any effort would fall short.

I instantly fell in love. So many desires, fantasies, wants evoked.

Both deserve to be adored, complimented and cherished for their beauty and their courage to look their best. Any woman who would be willing be so beautiful and sexy should know how much it is appreciated.

Been reading ur blog. U need to stop calling urself a dom. All this lovey crap makes real doms sick. A sub is not for respecting and loving. A sub is for using and thats what they like. Its fine that u love ur girl, just dont call urself a dom. Real doms show dominance, use there sub and leave her laying like the cunt slut she is. Bein all sweet, and all that does is give her power over u, which makes u not a dom.

Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you. 

First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making my point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things. 

And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that. 

A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect. 

A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance. 

A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to. 

A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him. 

A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important. 

A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect. 

A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf. 

A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.  

A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that. 

A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day. 

A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be. 

So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too. 

I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely. 

Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.

I think about this kind of thing a lot. Put on something nice. I'm taking you out tonight. I promise you will have a good time.

Good read about most in a relationship women.

Pouty little guide:

🌟Ok to start this off, EVERY LITTLE IS DIFFERENT! So that does not mean this post is relevant for every little!

💖you’ll notice your little is probably pouty and whiny and distant

💖ask them what’s wrong. They probably won’t tell you though. They might just whine and kick and turn away

💖at this point, some caregivers might just get annoyed or frustrated. That does not mean you can just walk away and leave them be. A lot of the time, your little is just looking for attention. Or if something is wrong, they want comfort

💖just cuddle up close to them. If they push you away, cuddle them harder. If they start hitting you, DO NOT jump to a punishment. Explain to them that being pouty is no excuse for them to break the rules. Tell your little if they do it again, they will be punished. But DO NOT harshly punish them. A gentle punishment is best because they are already pouty and you don’t want them even more pouty

💖ask them if they want to talk. If they don’t, just leave it be for the moment and hold your little close. If they do want to talk, sit them upright, maybe give them a stuffie or blankey, hold their hands, and tell them they can talk whenever they’re ready

💖I know I’m one of those littles that will say the opposite of what I want. If I tell my daddy to go away, I actually want him to pull me even closer and kiss my head and never let me go. I’ll fight it at first, but then I’ll give in because that’s actually want I want. I just didn’t want my daddy to know that’s what I wanted. If your little just keeps fighting it and gets even more pouty, let them go. Get them a stuffie or blankey to cuddle, fill up their favourite sippy or bottle with their favourite juice and set it next to them. Set their favourite paci next to them also. But DO NOT leave their side!!!!!!! Make sure you’re still there in case your little needs something or changes their mind about cuddles or talking

💖if your little let’s you cuddle them, pull them in your lap and rock back and forth. It’s a very soothing and comforting action that makes us littles feel safe

💖once your little is calmed down, maybe had a nap, ask them once more if they would like to talk about why they were being pouty. Communication and trust are the biggest components to a healthy relationship. If your little is comfortable with it, they will talk to you and trust you enough to do so. Just because they didn’t want to talk earlier, does not mean they won’t ever want to talk about it. Sometimes littles just need time to cool off before talking about it. Sometimes we just need comfort. Sometimes we don’t even know what’s wrong or why we’re feeling the way we do. So please DO NOT get offended or annoyed or upset or hurt or frustrated that we don’t want to talk, or possibly even cuddle

💖some littles also have mental disorders (ME INCLUDED SO DONT FEEL ALONE!) and we might be having a depressed episode or a panic/anxiety attack, or even just a mental breakdown. We don’t always know what’s going on in our head, so let us work it out, or help us work it out!

💖TO ALL CAREGIVERS: please please please understand that we ARE NOT always just mad or upset with you! Sometimes it’s the stuffs going on in our head or someone else, like a friend, causing drama. Sometimes it’s our disorders. WE DO NOT MEAN TO TAKE IT OUT ON YOU! And I believe I speak for all littles when I say this: we are truly sorry if we are taking it out on you!

💖number one rule of comforting a pouty little: NEVER NEVER NEVER just leave them there by themselves! Because that makes us feel even more upset because our caregiver doesn’t even want to deal with us. No matter how pouty we are, PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE US!

🌟I hope this helped! Either with helping daddies understand what to do, or helping a little put it into words for their caregiver. I know everyone is different so this may not have helped much, but I hope it helped at least one person!

🌟I’m not sure why, but it wouldn’t let me add the source. So this was made by me! @aliennxprincess

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Something to study while listening to Bambi brainwashing.

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It made me smile so I think it deserved a Reblog.