some trans guy got mad at me for my last post so im gonna do some passing tips 💖
hair and face
the first passing tip i have is for hair is please please dont dye your hair. if you dont do it properly it will die and youll have to cut it back which wont be good. instead use biotin (i think its called?) to grow your hair out quicker and healtier. For face ill link some makeup tutorials on how to femminize your face. if you dont have makeup then try to wear jewlery ie:chokers, earings, necklaces, or other face items like round glasses or eyelashs (they can be bought for like 4 dollars at claires or a dollar store).
2. chest and upper body
one of the best things you can get for chest dysphoria is pushup bras, padding, or a sports bra. somethings thats worked for me that could work for some of you is use socks as padding if you cant afford padding or gels. the way to do it is fold them from tip to back and put it in your bra. it works well for hiding a flat chest or a lack of curves. another thing for curves is to wear waist liners, but dont make them to tight itll fuck up your ribs major.
3. tucking and legs
as a trans women whos goal is to pass tucking is a necisary evil. the way to tuck is to push your balls into theyre sockets and pull back the p*nis between your butt. to keep a tuck in place theres 4 methods ranked from safest to dangerous.
gaffs are special panties made for trans women to tuck tightly and comftarbly. they can cost anywhere from 15 to 250 dollars US. homemade ones can also be made (linked below)
multiple pairs of panties (usually 2 or 3) can be put over the tuck to make it stay (this is the method i use)
duct tape is very dangerous but works so well for things like bathing suits or lingerie. it can however rip skin and cause epidermal damage from the adhesives
and finally is hair ties. yes, some people do this. wrapping hair ties around the scroatal skin can cause blood lose and need for surgery to removed the killed skin.
for legs wear tights and mom jeans to hide a lack of curves (unless you have them).
and for the crescendo
i will link tutorials below but the best way is to push back your adams apple and speak from the top of your throat and not your chest. practice this on an app like voice pitch anyliser made for trans voice training
please reblog this so all our trans sisters can see💖
-love, alexis texas⛦
edit: @discyours suggested instead of sports bras which when worn for long periods can cause damage, to have vest bras i think theyre called?
you can get em at walmarts an costcos
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People dont respond to my texts.
I feel like you hate me and want me to die.
Couple more thoughts about the Depp libel case before I shut up:
1. Thankfully, this was not a Depp vs. Heard trial. This was Depp vs. NGN. What this ruling practically means is that The Sun will not suffer consequences for calling Johnny a wife-beater. It is not the final ruling of Amber walking free. There’s another trial coming up with Johnny’s defamation case, which will be going to court next May in Virginia. That one is purely Depp vs. Heard.
2. The silver lining here is the outrage. Social media this morning has been nothing but people angry and confused about this verdict. In fact, I haven’t seen a single Amber supporter so far today, but hundreds of people asking for justice and horrified of the results of this trial. We all know it doesn’t take a court verdict to bring someone down when the public opinion is this loud and clear.
Support victims of abuse, including the men, and support them loudly, because the justice system does not.
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Oh boy allow me to add this one
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my dad is immunocompromised and at high risk for COVID complications, so we are extremely worried about him being in jail. i dont want my siblings to grow up without their dad. i dont want to lose him. please consider donating if you can, and if you cant, please please share!! thank you for reading ❤️
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It started so cool and now my day is ruined
did you know red snapper can live for over 100 years…. whatre they DOING down there
I dont know where i am
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