Latest Posts by phosnomalies - Page 4

PV to the council and other ancients:

🥀OLDER F/O IMAGINES🥀

♥️ imagine your F/O who’s almost decade older than you treating you like a child as a way to make you feel smaller.

♥️Imagine them passively scolding you whenever you do something wrong. “No, darling, we don’t do that” as they grab you by chin and force you to look at them “Mind your manners” “Say sorry”

♥️Imagine your F/O insisting on making every decision for you as “You’re too young to know what you want. I know what’s best for you”

Proship friendly blog! Antis dni

Writing backstories for why u and ur f/o got together is so difficult. Like I rizzed them up by existing and then we ran away into the sunset idk what to tell you, you just had to be there

"mirrorshipping", "doppelbanging", pussy ass behavior. look who can't say selfcest

Thing I notice

aging your self insert down >>>>>>

Obsessed doctor that never wants their patient to heal, gives them the wrong medication, therapy and anything they can do to make their patient theirs forever

Patient that don't understand and blame themselves for not being able to heal.

✦✦✦ — ❝ i'm an idiot for thinking◞ this was anything but blood ❞ ⸝

rentry on wip

𐙚 DNF: radqueers, pro-consang, antishippers, pro/complex contact para, any bigots in general

side blogs

@adoravanilla : coining/editing (sometimes) blog!

can’t get called out for age gaps if you ship twincest

buttlerfly method for addition in fractions is hell on earth

i need to do a rentry, so lazy aaahg

When you want to join a new fun fandom or community but half of them are vocal antis

incest without codependency is like an angel without wings

Running back into the room with "AND ANOTHER THING"

In regards to the "not anti, not proship, but a third thing":

Many neutrals will openly interact with antis who are aggressive against pro-shippers, all in the name of "well, I don't care about the discourse, so I don't care that they're antis"

I need you to understand that the flaw with this is that it frames the anti mindset as an acceptable viewpoint to have. It isn't.

Imagine if I said "I don't care about the arguments between librarians and Moms For Liberty, and I think they just need to calm down. I support neither! Just stop fighting!" and then exchanged friendly emails with M4L members. This would be utterly ridiculous, wouldn't it? It would mean that I find their beliefs to be valid opinions to hold, and not dangerous rhetoric that, taken to its logical conclusion, would result in mass censorship.

This is even worse in the case of people who "used to be" pro-ship/pro-fiction, presumably knowing how bad this can get and how it affects people IN REAL LIFE, who still chose to go "neutral" and start interacting with antis. You know what they do, you know how they doxx and stalk and threaten people, and you know how they've caused a lot of mentally vulnerable people to take their own lives, and you're going to give them ANY kind of voice in fandom?

To be "neutral" tells me you don't give a single shit about the people who are being targeted over stupid fandom bullshit that was practically never an issue pre-2015. And the few times that it was... well, that's actually why AO3 exists now.

You want the discourse to stop? The only way that's going to happen at this point is if you snuff out as much interaction with fancops as possible. Avoid interacting with them directly as much as possible, do not reblog their posts or their art no matter how innocuous it is, do not allow them into your fandom spaces. Exclude them from fandom entirely, methodically ostracize them. Block, block, block, and block some more. Doing this will mean we only have to deal with the most extreme of cases that involve mass-brigading and block evading.

That's still a tall order of course, but I can guarantee you fandom spaces will improve in quality if you refuse to make a space for fancops at the table.

Sorry. I'm tired of pretending "neutrals" are anything other than Fancop-Lite.

This!

how it feels enjoying anything when antis are around

all proshippers deserve a nice big bowl of pasta

my therapist did say it's ok to indulge in incest fantasies as long as i don't hurt a real person. god bless.

“I’m anti cringe culture!”

are you cool with people shipping things you don’t like? Are you cool with people making fanfiction you don’t like? Are you cool with people making fanart you don’t like? Are you cool with canon x oc stuff? Are you cool with self-shippers? Are you cool with furries? Are you—

what it's like adding a new f/o to your list:

(Stolen from an anti lol)

Proship culture is making your s/i (self insert) younger or older to be in a pedophilic relationship with your f/o (fictional other)

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I know antishippers are ilogical and it seems like some of them doesn't use their brains, but it's hilarious how some of them have villains as "blorbos" and they say "BUT I WOULDN'T DATE A REAL TERRORIST/MURDERER/ABUSER IN REAL LIFE"

If liking a FICTIONAL villain and finding him attractive doesn't make you want to date a REAL terrorist, murderer, abuser, etc... Why liking some minor characters would make you a person who wants to have sex with REAL minors???? (I already said one time that I like characters OLDER than me, but I wanted to say this for all the people who are called "pedophiles" without reason)

Like bro. If you consider that liking minor characters makes you a pedophile, then liking villains or finding them attractive makes you a murder/terrorism/genocide/abuse apologist. Period.

antis will always say something like "profic isn't good for your mental health! this isn't a healthy coping mechanism!" and yet not a single therapist would ever recommend that people bottle up their thoughts, feelings & urges. people NEED an outlet, especially for trauma survivors. in terms of outlets, what would you rather have? seeking comfort in fiction where nobody gets hurt, or seeking comfort in acting on real life people and changing the trajectory of their lives? if you say "neither," then im afraid you're missing the point. you can't heal trauma by ignoring it, that makes it worse. also hating profic because you pretend to care about someone's mental health is such a bad excuse. people cope differently and that's OK! how does it affect you? their trauma isn't yours, and even if you experienced similar trauma, you have no right to shame others for how they choose to cope. it's not your place! you're not making the internet a safer space by dictating how people should / shouldn't cope, you're just being an ass!

A coloring book is not CSAM you can't abuse a fucking drawing in a coloring book. It Waters down the meaning of CSAM/CSEM when you include fiction into the meaning and I find it appalling and degrading that other survivors could say that a coloring book is sexually abusive stop comparing drawings to actual children

You are allowed to get giddy from seeing your F/O(s). You are allowed to gush about their little features. You are allowed to comment on what feature(s) you love about them. Your love for them is important & valued by them :)

This is a huge fact!

Kincest

A term for when you are a character through kinning, but you also ship yourself with them.

Alternatively, when you and your partner are both the same character through kinning.

This term is a cousin to Altercest(link).

This term is not for anyone against selfshipping or proshipping.

WE ARE ANTIR-Q, RQs FUCK OFF.

black & white and also the symbol below

Seeing American TikTok antis go on Red note (Chinese app) and telling them what they should and shouldn't do on THEIR app.

Is like having a guest coming to your house and telling you how to arrange YOUR furniture.

they removed posting from tumblr. now there's only scrolling down through the vast blank expanse. great