If you are not disabled, especially if your not physically disabled or use a mobility aid, DO NOT tell us how to do things or what we should do to help us.
Today, I definitely should have been using my cane at school, but was I going to? No. Absolutely not. Being physically disabled in highschool is very hard and I am not at a point in my disability journey where I am comfortable just using my cane out and about in public, especially in school.
That being said, I was doing my normal thing and talking to some friends and being like oh yeah today I would’ve benefited from using my cane whilst out and about. After saying that, one if my friends, who is not physically disabled and has never experienced being physically disabled or using an aid, started going on and on about how I should just use it if I need to and not care about what people think. While I do agree to a certain degree, its a lot easier said than done. I am already mocked and made fun of, being a trans and neurodivergent person in high school.
I might be overreacting, but I don’t think people who aren’t physically disabled or use aids should be able to dictate what we do to help ourselves or when we do it. You are not in my shoes, you do not experience what I experience, do not tell me what to do.
(Sorry if it was aggressive, Ive been thinking about it all day)
I need johnlock ao3 recs so if you have or know fics with one of the following hmu: (10k+ words preferred but tbh I don't mind too much)
mutual pining - friends to lovers - fake dating au - coffee shop au - preferably pre-s4 until I rewatch - really soft or angsty smut - friends with benefits to lovers - miscommunication - LONG ASS SLOW BURN - being scared to admit feelings - one bed 👁 - stripper au - the longer the fic is the better - did I mention slow burn
also
if any of you were on Wattpad circa 2014/2015 and remember the name of that fic where Sherlock and John text each other by accident as strangers or whatever and end up in love (I think this also had a trailer on YouTube and poss some drama tbh lol) PLEASE hit me up bc I wanna reread it
thanks gang ily!
Have I only just now realised that I gently headbutt my partner to show affection?
That's between me and god
There is not enough Water in the entire world to hydrate my veins
The light leaves my eyes Ears roar, legs quiver, head spins Help me! I’m falling
I’m so god damn cold Pass me that woolen blanket Just kidding I’m hot
Thoughts every morning? “Give me gatorade and salt” “Heart can you just not”
Ow ow ow ow ow Fuck the people who said there would be no pain
BP and HR You are pissy little shits Just work together
Digestive system? Circulation? Brain function? What even is that? Everything my Body does on its own is Basically fucked.
liking star trek is a red flag. it's also an orange flag. and a yellow flag. and a green flag. and a blue flag. and a purple flag. liking star trek is gay. YOU are GAY.
You ever think about how normal you must look from the outside, sitting on your phone and scrolling or texting people or whatever, but inside the little voice in your head is screaming at you to get up and do something, anything, productive but you just cant
If you do have an alllergies please say in the tags what it is.Lets all suffer together
possible results include: stabbing, cannibalism, frogs, blogging from Mariana Trench and being god 💖
please tag what you got!
Thought I was getting better but oh well
But sometimes one just needs to have a sobbing breakdown to get one of their needs across ig so net positive?
I have an extension on my laptop to change my deadname to my real name, and it's awesome 10/10 (it's the deadname remover chrome extension by willhaycode)
But the problem is that i forget to turn it off if people are standing behind me and my brother just yelled out "who's Raine??" in front of my mother and sister 💀👍