go take care of that self sufficient trans girl who insists she can handle everything herself 👍
I used to be a powerlifter
(please reblog this version, as it is finished!)
i just. the spice that makes drag so transgressive and femboys so sexual and calling your favorite fictional man "babygirl" fun is transmisogyny.
crossing the line from "male" to "female" is the ultimate gendered taboo in our society, you know it, i know it, we're all acting on it. but when trabs women say "hey we're actually living that transgression and it makes us, specifically, vulnerable" the fun music stops and everyone pretends they dont know what shes talking about.
you stand here enjoying and celebrating and profiting from the aesthetics of transfeminity, all while ignoring the societal hierarchies that make it so enticing. all while rejecting the people most harmed by that stigma.
if you ever wonder why trans women dont like drag or are so mean to femboys or whatever just sit on this and maybe have the barest minimum amount of self reflection.
hey reminder that connecting humanity is extremely low on esims rn and desperately needs esim donations and also that there are a lot of cool things you can get in exchange for a donation
‘how do i get to know you better?’
don’t. i’m fucking insane.
dash is dead im teleporting to the past
https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard?max_post_id=606474489540042752
Ska animal
I get it, I really do, but I feel like ppl w decision paralysis related to Gazans are also suffering from a kind of non-malignant egotism
"who do I decide to give it to? everyone needs help! I can't help them all!"
You're not the only person they're asking!!!!!
If you choose one person to help that day, a bunch of other ppl choose others
stopping to overthink your inflated importance as an individual versus one in many is what's giving you paralysis
the more you burden yourself as an incapable hero the less you all act as a group-- which is the exact answer you're looking for
fkn close your eyes, scroll on OOB and donate to whoever you click on first
you're not god, it's not your job to save everyone
JUST DO SOMETHING
its always "believe women", unless they're trans or black or fat or disabled or mentally ill or
PROOF OF VETTING AND SHARING BY 90-GHOST. Her old URL was @/helpfamily
Marah @freepaleatine95 needs our help: She is a computer science student in Gaza who, like many others, has lost many loved ones since October 7th. She has reached out to me to make a post in her stead to raise support. You can read about her situation here.
Every amount sent her way counts. Please donate as little as $1 towards her campaign! If you cannot donate directly to her campaign, please send an amount below and I will donate for you!
$azura1998
[gets a new mutual] i look forward to working with you