Waking Up Engulfed By Them, Rough Hands Holding You In Place So You Can’t Move While They Fuck Into

I want you so bad.

i can’t begin to explain how badly i want to come undone with everything you can offer. you mouth, your hands… everything

would i look prettier with a bullet through my head or a bullet pressed to my clit?

i swear death would be more fun than whatever the fuck is going on with me

okay google, how do i get them to purposely turn me on and do nothing about it without directly telling them

tips for safer/more pleasurable BDSM play :3

1. Ensure Consent (obviously)

Consent is agreeing to engage with an understanding of what’s going to happen, with whom it’s going to happen, and the potential risks. Consent can only be given free of coercion, manipulation, or pressure.

2. Set Boundaries (duh)

For people who may be new to BDSM, there may not yet be a clear sense of what boundaries are needed.

3. Stay Sober (unless you’re into it)

Some people may feel nervous and want to have a drink or a toke to take the edge off. This can dull the senses and make it more difficult to know when either you or a partner is reaching their limit. BDSM is about getting into another headspace to fully explore one’s sexuality – allow yourself to be fully present for it

4. Establish Safe-words and Gestures (must have)

A safe word is an agreed upon term that, when used, will immediately cease all activities and prompt a check-in. It’s also a good idea to have a safe gesture, especially when play involves restriction of speech or air. When thinking about what this might be, imagine the types of scenes where this would be relevant.

5. Traffic Light System (useful)

Green light indicates that everything is good and can continue. Yellow means that someone is nearing their limit and may need to slow down but doesn’t need to stop. Red light is a hard stop at least to check in, and possibly to end the scene.

6. Aftercare (always, always, always do this)

We sometimes get so focused on the ‘main event’ that we don’t think through to the end. BDSM practices can bring up significant feelings for many people. Think about what you’ll need when the scene is over and make this a part of the agreement. Some people want to be cuddled or held, others may want food or water

7. Take Time To Reflect (either self, or together)

BDSM practices may bring out parts of you that you weren’t aware of before. Take some time to reflect on scenes and your experience of them.

8. Revisit Agreements (things do change)

As our awareness of ourselves and our interests grows, so might our willingness to explore. Be open to revisit or revise agreements with a play partner as needed.

being made to feel dumb>>>any normal conversation

i love that i can be so quiet whilst touching myself, no one can tell what im doing even whilst i finish

would love to be held down and edged to an exhausting orgasm at night after having an overstimulating orgasm in the morning

(all whilst being degraded and praised of course)

i crave lust. i crave the feeling of being taken for a couple hours to escape the horror of reality to been taken to a world of ecstasy, pain and pleasure. to have all my fantasies and my body memorised like a readers favourite novel. the spine broken into as his hands urgently turn pages to see how each word and page flows into beautiful disaster that one could only dream of. the pages marked where all of his favourite parts are, his initial marking the the inside of the cover - he won’t share this book because he knows the sweet nectar it holds between the covers.

i want to be treated like a readers favourite novel.