Vibes - Blog Posts

You would look cute half dead in my living room.

Daily reminder… brought to you by one of my coffee cups. 🧡

Word. 💯

sleep deprived girl who is usually a people pleaser wakes up tired and chooses violence (decides to say no to things that are exhausting and can’t give a fuck about what people think because she’s trying to get through the day and go back to bed)

Indeed. ✌🏻

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its like i always say. at least theres bisexuality

I don’t know what it’s like to be on hormones. I DO know what it’s like to be given a hard time over something you want because someone else is afraid. And I’ve seen a close friend or two (one was my ex) go through a LOT thanks to others who disagreed with how they identify. Especially if the individual in question is an older teen or grown adult, let them be. They’re old enough to know. If you don’t agree with something, that’s okay. Yes, there are cases where something happens someone may regret or not be completely happy with even after.

But for the most part — and I’m trying to say this carefully — the older someone gets, especially if they’re not changing their mind or seem to lean into it… they’re likely to know.

As someone who knows what it’s like to struggle with their gender expression and / or sexual configuration, I can speak on this to an extent. Let me clarify: I was born female. I choose to live as a woman, though some friends call me different pronouns because everyone who knows me sees me differently. Some see me one way, others see me another. But I dress and act how I please. I generally don’t speak on this with those in my life… seldom, if anything. I have gone through a long and hard process of self-discovery over the years, and that is the conclusion I came to.

I have my reasons why I made my decision; I don’t want to share them in this post, since it’s probably not necessary.

I don’t completely hate or dis-like my body. There was a time I did. This is my experience. This is in NO WAY to dis-credit others. I’ve learned to appreciate it and love it. I’ve made about as much peace with it as I can. Does that mean I never have days where I still feel a little bothered?

No.

Not everybody ends up making peace or deciding they can go without hormones or surgeries, and it can very much impact them. They shouldn’t have to suffer because of someone else’s preferences or comfort. People worry about things like this being dangerous — O.P. is right to say that lots of things can be considered “risky” or “ir-reversible.” Many of those things people still do, and somehow they’re given less fuss, depending on what it is. But, especially depending on age, for one, a person has a right to make their decision. They have a right to bodily autonomy. For my friends who don’t identify as the gender they were born with, keep rocking!

Don’t let anyone ever tell you what you can or can’t do, because it’s YOUR body and YOUR choice. You can’t control their fear over something they don’t like or understand.

"irreversible side effects of HRT" all of life is irreversible. i cannot go back a single second in time

Really.

Indeed we do, and this is how it works.

“We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining. Expecting. Worrying. Doubting. Just let it naturally evolve”

— Unknown

Amen. 👏🏻 🍻 I don’t think people should — or need to — necessarily, put themselves in a box.

Just my two-cents.

What does make a human punk?

Listening to punk music? Well there are "punks" wno are nazi and listen to it, and people who are not punks and listen it

And if I listen not ONLY punk music? Am I "not punk enoth"?

Maybe, punk is about ideology? Na-ah, punks say that it is not, and you MUST listen the music. Also, punks are very different. Like, crust punk and hope punk, come on. Different main ideas

Maybe being punk is abowt style?

Bich, if anyone say it out loud, "true-punks" will eat them alife

For me, you are punk if you are punk. It's vibes. It's ideology - partly. Style - partly. Music - partly. It's about feeling "the taste" of being punk. About your feelings. Like gender: you are not boy because you have dick and not girl because of vagina. You're what you want to be because you FEEL IT with your soul.