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Always good to see the good old instructions are still circulating

Trolls are largely just poorly developed sadists with no real world consensual outlet to exercise their inept form of sadism so they attack others trying desperately to get themselves a dopamine kick. They’re addicted to it and social media companies are primarily built on profiting from systems that encourage and enable these trolls in doing it.

Being in my late 40s, having experienced what the world was like without the internet and with it, I truly still cannot fathom people! Would you actually be brave enough to say such horrible things in person? The sad thing is Trolls probably are just as horrible in real life. Let people do what they want and be who they want to be. They are not hurting you, so Trolls stop Trolling and go and work on your own serious issues. Try to just be a nice person. You will be amazed how your life will change.

In regards of the Trump government scraping all trans inclusion in its queer information portion of its websites I have made this thing. Spread the word. Don't let them pretend we never existed.

P.S: Don't like! Reblog! <3

EDIT: Well this got a lot of attention! I got a few users asking to print or repost my art and I am unimaginably grateful to everyone's interest, especially since it's a really simple drawing I made on a whim haha! Anyone who is looking to print these out to hang or hand out or repost on another platform is free to do so, although I ask you to credit me and let people know it's from my Tumblr profile! If anyone wishes to do anything else with my art or post and wants to clarify what I consent to then they can message me privately and I'll explain! <333 all my love to my queer siblings

EDIT: I made an LGBTQIA+ version with a focus on trans and intersex folks, it's on my pinned if you prefer this version of the acronym.

An excellent introductory article on 24/7 d/s lifestyles with collaring and considerations for a physically active lifestyle.

Eternity

How to have an active life - while collared 24x7 - Eternity

In the D/s lifestyle, it’s common for people to wear a collar or cuff that locks. As a symbol of devotion and ownership, it’s worn 24x7 and

On his Facebook account, Jay Wisemen posted this excerpt today from SM 101.

(I highly recommend his work for anyone new to BDSM. Jay’s website store is currently under construction as of 2024-10-02: https://jaywiseman.com/wordpress/index.php/store/

You can currently find this excellent book here, though:

(Excerpt from “SM 101: A Realistic Introduction” -- copyright 1998)

Page 245: Dominant/submissive Interactions

On Being Doninant

Courtesy. The best dominants I know are scrupulously clean in their dealings with others. Their ethics rival those of the best attorneys and physicians. For example, they are polite, friendly, and open when dealing with other dominants. (Please forgive the cliche, but some of my best friends are dominant women.) Also, they never try to dominate and, especially, never touch another person’s submissive without first getting both people’s consent. Finally, in much the same way as a surgeon describing an operation to a patient, they carefully describe the general features of a proposed session to a new submissive - giving that submissive ample opportunity to back out. Consent is not enough for the best dominants. They want informed consent.

Good dominants are noted for being open and friendly. They freely share their knowledge and skills with appropriate others. They are often helpful in organizing events and frequently serve as officers in SM clubs. Furthermore, they are not hostile to dominants of different sexual preferences. For example, many dominant gay men readily share their knowledge with dominant heterosexual women. Dominant lesbians share secrets with dominant heterosexual men. These people all recognize their own, and others, value and worth. They are not so silly as to consider their own orientation superior.

Poor-quality dominants, on the other hand, cause irritation everywhere they go. They try to dominate other dominants, cop an attitude toward strangers and non-scene people, and otherwise try to get into a one-up position. A novice submissive woman I know suddenly realized about an acquaintance, “He’s not a dominant - he’s a rude asshole.” Furthermore, poor-quality dominants often regard submissives with disdain. They may try to give orders to, or attempt to touch (perhaps even whip), someone who has not previously agreed to submit. They may demand submissive behavior before negotiations, or even personal acquaintance, have been completed. These behaviors can provoke a strongly negative reaction, up to and including a fist in the face.

Poor-quality dominants are predatory with submissives. They attempt to dominate as many people as possible. These widely despised creatures cause anger and resentment everywhere they go and are held in contempt. They usually don’t last long in the SM community.

Many of the best dominants do not appear at all dominant when you meet them in the “vanilla” world. Except for perhaps a certain unwillingness to obey a direct order as quickly as others obey it, and a lack of anxiety about making direct eye contact, they appear fairly normal. They are often among the friendliest of people. (Many heterosexual, dominant men in the SM community are notorious punsters.)

I always try 😏😏😏

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Consent Survey

We may be weird, but we do take consent seriously. Here is the link to the template that we use to gauge interests and establish consent and gauge interest on different kink topics.

We are giving it away for free to anyone that would like to make a copy and use it!

A good girl wants to be used as the entertainment for partied.

She wants to be completely naked while fully dressed guests mingle.

She wants it known that at anytime the guests can fuck her. Any where they wish and in front of anyone they wish.

She wants the guests to carry on their conversations normally, fully ignoring her whimpers and leaking holes to whatever degree the choose.

A good girl will sit with legs spread awaiting any guest who may wish to grope, finger, or fuck her.

She is excited to be passed around and given from lap to lap as guests entertain themselves casually with her body.

She encourages her objectification and humiliation at whatever level the guest demands as they finger and fuck her with whatever their hearts and hard cocks desire.

A good girl spreads wider as a hand, a wine bottle or cock is fucked into her dripping wet hole.

A good girls gets off on the fact that she has inspired the guests to invent depraved games to use her in.

A good girl serves their widely varied kinks and gets off on the fact that they thought so highly of her and of her ability to find enjoyment in being of this kind of service to their sexual perversity and depravity that they chose her above all others to give her service to them.

A good girl accepts who she is.

A good girl asks for ever more opportunities to practice it.