Help My Friend Survive In A Refugee Camp

I relate to this so much, especially the part about caring(?) about your friends, but not necessarily wanting(?) friendship (I’m not sure if I’m wording this right)

Being aplspec makes discussions about friendships in aro spaces so awkward like. Yeah I agree friendship should be given more respect and amatonormativity should be dismantled. Yes I care very deeply for my friend(s). No I can't relate to your experiences with friendship or wanting friends. You've lost me. Why are you talking about friendship as if everyone has and/or wants it. Hey. Whatever happened to allowing people to decide what relationships they want and what those relationships entail for themselves.

It's exhausting because aro spaces are often one of the only spaces that will respect my devotion and care (sometimes I even call it love, depending on how I'm feeling that day) for my friend, but friendship is also just treated like romance is everywhere else and no one even seems to notice. You're not gonna defeat amatonormativity with the power of platonormativity. Have you considered readjusting your understanding of relationship anarchy and questioning your own biases and assumptions about platonic relationships? I'm drowning in "use friendship as a substitute for romance" posts over here

(and it's like. I don't want to criticize people's love for their friends or anything like that. I'm just so tired of all the assumptions of having and wanting friends. They're everywhere in here and make me feel so estranged from my own community)

(this turned into a bit of a vent but it's okay to rb and add on)

I have a Wattpad account that I post my writing on and I want to know if I should also make an ao3 account and post my work on there as well

Deciding to reblog with my list

Soft fluffy textures

Some types music or really just music in general

Rocking

Running my hands through warm water

There’s probably more but these are all I can think of

alright figured out another one:

running my thumb through the pages of a book (especially when the pages are considered more soft in texture)

What are your sensory sparks? ✨

REAL

Like why can’t I be a being of mist or something???☹️☹️☹️

Nonbinary dysphoria is wack bc sometimes I look in the mirror and I’m like oh no I look too masculine and too feminine at the same time. 

Sometimes you just want to look like a blob. 

🤸 Welcome to marine facts with Bagel: part 4

Filter feeders like blue whales and whale sharks are incapable of swallowing us because their throats are too small

Bagel out 🤸

I’m back to questioning my personality type again so if anyone would like to help me dissect my sakinorva results please do 😔

Grant function type: INTP

Second best choice: ENTP

Myers function type: INTJ

Myers letter type: IST

Ne (extraverted intuition): 29.4

Ni (introverted intuition): 27.6

Se (extraverted sensing): 15

Si (introverted sensing): 32

Te (extraverted thinking): 25

Ti (introverted thinking): 32

Fe (extraverted feeling): 21

Fi (introverted feeling): 24

(I also took this test more than 2 years ago so I might retake it soon)

YESSSS

LET THE BOOPING COMMENCE!!!

You can spam boop me!

reblog if you let people spam boop you

Enjoy these photos of my baby, I got more that I’ll post at a later time/date

Here are the “more pictures” I said I’ll post

🤸 Welcome to marine facts with Bagel: part 9

When a bloom of jellyfish get close to the surface, like really close, that's usually a sign of something wrong (usually things like over heating) (idk how to word it) within the waters they inhabite (if that makes sense)

Bagel out 🤸