As An Autistic, Same. All Us Neurodivergents Should Travel In Packs To Relieve This Societal Tension.

I would be genuinely curious if anyone is able to hack this. 😂 I cannot find a universal thread between any of these guys. Love them though! <3

Freaking love my little Dachsbun baby. Her name is Alice, and she soloed the seven-star Charizard, as well as helping me take down the new seven-star Cinderace raid. She’s such a tanky gal!

P. S.

She’s named after the Disney live-action Alice in Wonerland version of Alice, because at the end of the movie Alice slays a dragon. I felt that it was fitting. :)

I have a question for y'all, both old and new tumblr users

(forgive me if this has been done before, I'm just curious!)

He's a pretty annoying bot.

Restarting this blog again, I wanna make things a little more personal rather than Pinterest-y.

Old habits die hard!

What’s it like being 21 and older

Oh yes, this is a really helpful guide. It can also be helpful to non-autistics as well! Some symptoms of ASD can also cross over to other conditions like PTSD and ADHD. It’s important to recognize your limits and know when you need to step away!

Some things that tip me off when I’m getting overloaded are on this list, but disassociation and the freeze response can also be reactions of overload too. So can becoming mono-syllabic or non-verbal.

Another important thing: don’t belittle yourself for needing a break! Everyone needs one from time to time, even neurotypicals. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. If anything, knowing how to take time for yourself in stressful situations is a sign of good boundaries and good mental health! I wish more parents taught this stuff to their kids; so many meltdowns could have been avoided.

Clues to help you figure out if an autistic friend or loved one is in overload

Overload is basically the point where our Autistic brains can no longer handle input. It's not a meltdown or shutdown, but more of a mental checkout. Frequent overloads, however, can lead to meltdowns or shutdowns.

It's important not to assume that we will have overload only in loud or busy environments. Autistic brains often process information at a much slower pace than a NT brain, so even quiet environments can cause overload if something triggers it.

Note: not every autistic experience is the same and these are general guidelines only.

Common signs of overload:

Loss of facial expression or difficulties in making facial expressions. May start to exaggerate facial expressions, too, as they are struggling to mask.

Staring off into space, easily distracted, struggling to pay attention etc.

Increased stimming.

Difficulties in speaking such as stuttering, forgetting words, mixing up sounds, or difficulty speaking at all.

May try to cover their ears, eyes etc to sensory input.

Increased sensitivities and may include new or unique sensitivities.

Headaches or feeling physically sick such as sweating, stomach ache etc.

Fellow Autistics: what signs would you like for others to know?

For REAL.

While high-functioning may appear more “normal” to neurotypical people, in my experience, it takes a lot of hard work to appear that way. Hence the term “masking.” You’re essentially wearing a mask to appear more neurotypical to the people around you, but there’s a lot of work going on behind the scenes to help keep the facade up, and it is super tiring for the people doing it. I may be able to keep a bubbly and open presence at a party, but I know for dang sure I’m going to lock myself in a quiet room when I return home so I can decompress and process.

TFA Wasp for my Transformers sideblog. Thought I’d share them here too! 💚💜

Pain and suffering pain and suffering PAIN AND SUFFERING—

heartbreaking:

girl has sooooooo many ambitions and ideas for projects but can only get 1.5 basic tasks done per day