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aroallos: you are not gross or impure.
alloaces: you are not “waiting for the right person”.
aroaces: you are not unfeeling.
angled aspecs and oriented aroaces: your love is valid.
aplatonic and aqueerplatonic people: you are normal.
demi and greyspec folks: you are not “just like everyone else”.
abro, aceflux, and aroflux people: you are not “indecisive”.
hetero aspecs: you are part of the community.
sex/romance positive aspecs and hypersexual aspecs: you are not pretending to be aspec.
sex/romance indifferent people: you are deserving of respect.
sex/romance repulsed people, both allo and aspec: you are not broken.
aspecs who use microlabels I have not included above: you exist.
aspecs: you are here. you are queer. you are deserving of whatever kind of love you want to receive.
as an asexual who likes to imagine sex but doesnt actually like having sex, sometimes it just feels like sex isnt real but i wish it was. and post