THIS IS SO REAL!!!
I just want to rip my spine out sometimes š #scoliosisproblems šš
Iāll be sure to do more research next time as well
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Alright Iāll be sure to do so
on colors and being different and not being enough for yourself
(please reblog instead of liking)
Why canāt I be as good at the college thing as I was at the high school thing
The blacked out parts include my āØlegal nameāØ
I have decided to eat first
Now I shall take my nap
(or at least try to)
Oh the dilemma of having to choose between taking a nap and eating food š
Wow, Iām officially 20ā¦. š§
Welp, time to go and edit all my social media bios šāļø
I can actually relate to most of this list, though I donāt call myself semiverbal (this is not to say that others who relate to this arenāt allowed to call themselves semiverbal) (if that makes sense) (Iām just not sure if I can consider myself semiverbal)
(Iām not sure where I fall on the verbal? scale?)
going entire days without talking except for a few words and not noticing
going entire days saying maybe one word answers
communicating primarily through text and typing the majority of the time if i can get away with it
forgetting how to physically speak sometimes. i will know what words to say but mouth won't be able to do it
words getting mashed up and slurred together for no reason
communicating in scripts and preplanned words
if no script prepared, it's extremely difficult to come up with coherent words on the spot
constantly saying the wrong words and nothing like what i meant to say
always having to have somebody else go with places in case of needing to speak, so they can talk for me
blanking out on words and just not responding to people, sometimes walking away because too much pressure to speak
having to have someone else make phone calls for me, anything that involves a phone call i can't do
keeping like 3-4 aac methods on me at all times but still being scared to use them because that means communicating, why not just point at stuff instead
echolalia
stealthy echolalia
I saw the part about how the patriarchy also negatively affects men, and I wanted to expand(?) a bit more on that.
Yes, the patriarchy centers around having men in the main position of power, both at the home and on the political scene (to name a few examples), but it also sells the idea to men that they have these conform to the stereotypes that the patriarchy perpetuates.
And Iām not ignoring the great privilege the patriarchy gives to men, but we canāt ignore the harm that it also causes them.
The idea that men HAVE to be leaders, that they HAVE to be strong, that they CANāT be vulnerable
We should be able to recognize the harm the patriarchy causes to women without pushing the harm it causes all other genders, but specifically men in this instance, out of the picture.
I want there to be fewer MRAs. Do you want that too? Do you want to know what helps us get there, from a feminist perspective?
You may not like my answer: acknowledge that sexism can affect men. Recognize that, although the patriarchy generally privileges men, they are also subject to restrictive gender roles that are harmful to them (shunning all things āfeminine,ā not showing emotions, being protectors/strong, never admitting being victims of SA/IPV, having to āearnā their manhood, etc.).
Give young men a place other than the right-wing manosphere to be heard about the issues they experience. If these grifters are telling them āonly we understand how hard it is to be a man, the left hates you for your genderā and they look to the left and see āmen claiming they have āproblemsā are losers who just hate women, all men are trash,ā do you think theyāre going to be drawn towards or away from feminism?
Before you leave an angry response: no, this does not mean to center men instead of women in feminism, it just means including them at all. No, it is not ācoddlingā men to treat them with human dignity, you can and should continue to hold them (and every other gender) responsible for unpacking sexist beliefs. No, this does not mean it is every individual womanās and feministās responsibility to prioritize menās issues, it just means at the least not shutting them down when they do speak up about sexism. No, it is not ānot all men-ingā to point out that āmen are trashā sentiments hurt the feminist movement rather than helping it. Ask questions before you make accusations on this post, please. I have been abused by men too, I get it, this isnāt easy to hear.
Wanting to show yāall one of my personalized AAC boards
Less options (?) make it less overwhelming
Sorry about the coming overload(?) of pictures
Includes what some(?) of them say in full