Latest Posts by painless-voids - Page 7

The tags are perfect!

They were a little too silly 😔

@zishu-arts thank you for the inspiration (sorry I accidently posted this on my main)

Queer 👏 people 👏 are 👏 not 👏 all 👏 fucking 👏 activists 👏

Stop quizzing us on queer history and asking us questions we aren’t qualified to answer about the world and about politics and about our identities

Stop trying to back us into a corner so you can justify your discrimination on the basis that we don’t know what we’re talking about or can’t “defend” ourselves to you

Stop treating every queer person that stands up and says “I want to be treated like a person” as if they’re an activist

Cut that bullshit out

Marginalised people just want to exist and be happy

I don’t know everything, and that doesn’t make me undeserving of your respect or my human rights you fucker

I don’t even owe you the stuff I do know- I still am entitled to basic fucking respect

TLDR; Queer people shouldn’t have to be historians or scientists for you to not be a fucking dick

I'm not a professional, nor do I know much about aspec labels, but I think you are aroflux. Again, I myself am still learning about the labels and discovering myself. From what you're saying, you sound like you are, in fact, aroflux which is ok!

am I aroflux?

So some days I really love my partner and wanna stay with him for years to come but other days I don’t really like him in a romantic way very much if at all so what do you think?

THIS ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

the statements "clothes don't have gender" and "clothes can and do invoke gender dysphoria and euphoria for many people" can and should coexist.

Like/reblog if you think that you don't need to medically transition to be transgender

rb to have an ultra gay 2024

Ok, hold on. What's a TERF? I get that it's bad but... what is it?

"we need more weird queers!!"

you start parroting TERF talking points the milisecond someone says they are a lesboy or gaygirl

you cry when mspec lesbians/gays exist

you refuse to use neopronouns or it/its, even when those are a persons only set of pronouns

you expect a-specs to experience attraction in some way (yes, that includes platonic attraction)

you exclude intersex people

you can't even accept furries.

Pour one out for a real one.

This is absolutely beautiful 🤩

Happy Pride Month to everyone who gets this joke, laughed at it, or isn’t a homophobic or transphobic etc asshole.

Happy Pride Everyone.

Stay Gay.

Am I the only one seeing pride flags?

Here's some cat's in Flower crowns

You're thinking of venomous things my guy (gender neutral).

*gives you a foxglove* *gives you a nightshade* *gives you a devil’s trumpet* *gives you a moonflower* *gives you an oleander* *gives you a lily of the valley* *gives you a hydrangea* *gives you wisteria* *gives you a buttercup* *gives you a daffodil* *gives you an iris* *gives you elder berries* *gives you a

Alan and TCO should find out about Second's little 'issue'

Orange: *dies* *comes back* what the hell Blue? I mean, I guess that got me to full health, but come ON!

Blue: *growing increasingly concerned*

April Fool’s pranks gone wrong, except no one was pranking anybody

do me a solid and just reblog this saying what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about in the tags.

This year, I went to two local pride events. It was great, but in both events I noticed something: there was almost no aromantic representation. There were plenty of flags for sale, as well as colored merch and stickers, encompassing a wide range of identities. Not ONE of them was aromantic. The flag banners they'd put up, with a bunch of different LGBTQ+ flags? No aromantic. However, there was an asexual flag as well as other items for sale, which was part of the reason I was surprised by the lack of aromantic flags and other merchandise.

I'm not saying the asexual representation is bad; it's great! It's the lack of representation for aromanticism that is problematic. I'm aroace. I was pissed as HELL because I only felt that half of me was underrepresented. I can't imagine how excluded allosexual arospec folk would have felt to know that they had all but been completely erased. The A in LGBTQIA doesn't just stand for asexual; it's for aromantic and agender (which I also noted had no representation) too.

The only mention of aromanticism at all in both pride events was a brief, easy to overlook touch on it at a few stalls. Pride is meant to be inclusive to all. To ALL. Not ALLOROMANTICS ONLY. ALL.

I'm aromantic. I'm not just ace. It took me years to figure out that I was also aromantic, but it doesn't actually make a difference. If I can only find my asexuality shown at pride events then things need to change.

I am aromantic. I'd like for that part of me to be represented. I DEMAND that part of me to be represented.

My experience, from what I remember, is that I didn't know about LGBTQ for a long time as no one ever talked to me about it. I even found out on my own when I was in middle school. After I found out, I just thought "alright. Cool." And moved on. When I started exploring myself I stayed in the closet, and it still isn't an openly discussed topic in my family when I came out. I think my family forgot or just don't care. I'm scared of what could happen when I fully come out and am open. I don't remember ever being against it. I'm still learning and questioning myself, but I'm growing bit by bit.

A small experimental and messy comic about the queer hate to queer pipeline that seems to affect a lot of people, and since it’s pride month and I don’t see a lot of artistic commentary on this…here you go? I’m a baby gay, not even able to legally drink yet and only recently realized my sexuality so I’m sure there’s people who have suffered from being raised in bigotry much longer and much worse and I’m willing for this post to be the place they can share their stories! I’d be honored to hear stories from people like me. Happy pride month!

(Writers Note for page two- I am aware of sexualities that stem from trauma like Caedsexual exist and are 100% valid! I am referring to the belief that ALL under the LGBTQ+ umbrella are sick and are just ‘confused victims of abuse’ in a not so nice sense.)

Creechur :o

Cupid missed

STEAL THE FLAG!!

Reblog this if you support sex-averse and sex-repulsed aces, including:

Aces who never want to have sex

Aces who had sex in the past but don't desire it anymore

Aces with sexual trauma who feel like their trauma ties into their asexuality

Aces with sexual trauma who don't feel like their trauma caused their asexuality

Aces who don't want to talk to you about sex

Aces who don't want to hear about sex

Yes even aces who do not want to engage with any sexual content and don't want it in their own personal spaces

Yes even aces who express the desire to have more spaces for queer adults where their boundaries are met (on top of the queer spaces that exist, we do not want to sanitize your existing spaces ffs)

If you cannot be normal about these people existing, if you believe they're a threat to our community and to how we're viewed by people who aren't aspec and the rest of the LGBTQ+ community, you are not an asexual ally. Yes, even if you're aspec yourself. Especially if you're aspec yourself.

Because it's been pride month for 4 days and I'm already seeing people trying to throw us under the bus or pretend we don't exist because that makes the ace community more palatable to exclusionists and people who swallowed too much "aces are puritans" propaganda.

Don't remember if I reblogged this yet, but... here ya go!

[Image ID: The Destiel confession meme edited so that Dean answers 'There's a petition to ban conversion therapy in the EU' to Cas' 'I love you'. /End ID]

If you are a citizen in the EU please sign this petition:

eci.ec.europa.eu

European Citizens' Initiative

Give your support !

*You and Spamton take a picture.

*You stiffly wrap an arm around him. His smile grows wider.

*Neither exchanges were genuine.

say click, take a pic

(repost bc tumblr wont let it show up in tags ;(

I, being female, have a lot of male friends, and my sister has joked about my best friend and I getting together even though the two of us are fine with being friends. You 👏 are 👏 allowed 👏 to 👏 be 👏 just 👏 friends 👏 with 👏 the 👏 opposite 👏 gender 👏!

Pride Month and The Aphobic Stereotypes

With Pride Month being here we will unfortunately see a lot of aphobia. The usual:

'you just haven't found the right one'

'are you x because you have suffered?'

'sex/romance is everything!'

'you're like an innocent child'

'you're a monster for not feeling (romantic) love'

'how can you write/draw smut or enjoy smut art if you're asexual?'

'how can you write/draw romance or enjoy romance art if you're aromantic?'

'you're going to die alone/be miserable without a partner!'

'that person can't be your friend; must be your lover/crush'

No aphobia allowed. Asexuality and aromanticism is a spectrum. We're not all the same. I'm a sex-repulsed and romance-repulsed aro/ace. If you want to learn more research and kindly ask around. So Happy Pride Month to Aromantics, Asexuals, and Aroaces!

As someone who has a tendency to go nonverbal when anxious, stressed, or scared, I would like to back this up. I remember learning some basics when I was much younger, but I never had the chance to use it so I forgot. I have an autistic friend who uses sign language when she talks sometimes, but I don't understand it.

idk man. i just think itd be really cool if sign language classes were mandatory throughout primary school. yeah because it would make communication with deaf kids and autistic/nonverbal kids much easier. and those kids would be accessible to the others so they cold make friends and have healthy relationships. yeah. and kids would eat that shit up man. like their own little secret language? they love that.

Oh. Ok. Cool. I'm just. I'm just gonna go over there. Go to that corner. I'm gonna go to that corner there and cry.

What happened to Susie in Cyrocrypt??? Skin burns are mentioned a lot and I need to know what happened

SOOOO… you know how in deltarue’s abandoned weird route, berdly’s arm becomes numb—

Honestly, I think this whole thing is dumb. These companies are making billions. I'm pretty sure most people look for whatever is cheapest. Also what the hell is Plexiglas??

no idea where i was going with this but i abandoned it at the most disconcerting moment possible

Susie?? What????

????????????

i burnt my fucking arm it hurts so bad……. you know who else burnt their arm

Knight : Please help me make more dark fountains please please please please please

Knight : You just need something sharp and then you stab the ground.

Knight : It’s not hard.

Knight : Please do this for the love of God please PLEAASEEEEE

Noelle : Look, I know what will happen when we do this for you!

Noelle : We are NOT going to help you!

Noelle : Right, Susie?

Susie, already taking off her spiked bracelets :

Noelle :