I like this, although I also like the varying intersecting m/f symbols used as a venn diagram of play interests, although that is less covert.
I've been seeing a recent influx of followers so now is a good opportunity to repeat a post I've made before:
This blog is not a safe space for nazis, trump supporters, right wingers, transphobes, homophobes or actual real life misogynists.
If any of the above describes you, kindly fuck off.
One more time,
Feminism is the inherent truth that any woman who wishes to submit to a man has the right to do so and that she has an inherent, constant control over the state of that consent.
Anyone who pretends Feminism isn’t the platform on which consent is built is simply an abuser incapable of earning the consent of a woman’s submission.
Tumblr blogs are a public facing platform that is not an in-community space, and it is important (especially in today’s world of glorifying the idiocy of small men’s misogyny resulting from their inherent lack of competency and self development as men) that more effort be put into establishing a framework for successful community rather than solely exercising the escapism of in-community sexual fantasies.
CW: light misogny. Not intended to be a hypnosis file.
Here's the second volume of the weekly instructions! These instructions are set up with no date so anyone can listen and do them any week they like. After all, I know you need all the help you can get!
As always, let me know if you do a day, more than a day, or the whole thing! And most importantly, have fun.
Your body must be rested and fed if you wish to be a pervert.
Work out examples like this that he asserts are proper methods of service. If in doubt, show him a list like this and ask if he will help you make the list better or better suited to what he likes.
Remember, if he doesn’t want it then it is not service.
#1 – Be able to host, especially if he is married.
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo
.#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
.#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – you don’t need to take a break.
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, you are not done. Get him hard again.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. I would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off
.#13– Rim him. When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#14 –touch your cunt when you are sucking him, but do not cum
.#15 - Ask him if he wants to take pictures or record you sucking his cock to brag and show to his friends
Perfect isn’t possible, but being a person who consistently practices makes you a good girl
Drool hehe
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Pornography is almost entirely biased toward predatory consumption. The content appeals to those who get off on predatory consumption.
Generalizing…
This, in the self created content era, tends to be submissive leaning women and the men who enthusiastically consume them and mold them to service their consumption and often predatory kinks.
This is not some wild revelation. It is the point and the structure of the whole porn reality.
Women who get off on it accept that objectification, degradation, and humiliation, create exciting images for the many men who get aroused by these things. Women feel how dirty it is to serve themselves into the arousal of these men. It feels disgusting. It feels humiliating. Yet… in that a great many women find their own arousal couldn’t be greater.
There is nothing wrong with a woman enjoying the energy of being degraded, humiliated and objectified.
Letting these things stimulate your own cravings is your right as a woman to enjoy. You can not only let yourself want it, you can practice growing your role within it. You can like it. It is your right to want to serve men who are offering up an erotically predatory craving to use you. For you to want to service their craving because it feeds your own cravings.
Cravings to serve. To please. To receive attention. To earn praise. To feel dirty. To ache from hard use. Etc…
It is ok to not only accept these experiences, but it is your right to enjoy and pursue them.
Practice it. Serve it. Want it.
Let it ignite your cravings and fan those flames.
Seek out the porn that you crave. Accept that it serves filthy things within you as it helps shape you into a woman who allows herself to enjoy whatever perverse kinks she enjoys.
Degrading, violent, male centered sex gets you off and there is nothing wrong with that.
It is not exciting for all women, just as it is not exciting for all men. But if it does excite you, there is no reason not to enjoy, accept, and grow that which gets you off.
if she wears cute lingerie for you don’t take everything off, push the panties to the side and fuck her in her cute little outfit.
The real journey begins when you accept that many of your daily life’s elements are secondary traits of your life.
You are a submissive who has a job as a ______.
You are a submissive who lives at ________.
You are a submissive who married _________.
You are a submissive who does ________ for recreation and exercise.
Etc… etc…
You can of course choose things that take precedence. Like, you are a mother, sister, friend, wife, etc… but the truth is that the higher you elevate your own self understanding to reflect that you are a submissive above other things, the more enjoyable your life will be and the less you will have to think about how your life as a submissive fits in with the rest of your life and rather to witness how all of your other life activities are an extension of who you are as a submissive.
The clarity of this, regardless of how you ultimately balance it, is essential.
Anyone who is not a feminist is not practicing Dominance and submission.
Feminism (the understanding that all people are inherently entitled to equal rights and justice) is the ONLY mechanism by which a woman can participate in submission. Without a starting point of mutually recognized equality a woman is not capable of exercising submission, and she has only the ability to accept and accommodate her own abuse at the hands of someone who (it seems most commonly) was incapable of earning her actual submission.
Only poorly informed people promote or support one person having an innate and unearned right to hold power over another person.
I’m so happy I finally made a tumblr for accepting my place. I used to just look at so many good accounts but never follow, but I couldn’t stop looking. I’m still learning what I like and still consider myself a feminist I appreciate any help!
Consent is the essential element that makes scenarios possible. I’ll clarify and make more peominent this part of my bio given some ego-centric tools seem to think they matter to me: I write simply for my own practice putting thoughts into text. Nothing I write is about nor for anyone else save for myself and my partner in practice.Additionally: Feminism in BDSM is the essential idea that a person of any gender can only participate as a submissive in BDSM if they start from a position of respected equality Married over 40No DM’s
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