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Who needs a spanking? Let me know.
Some girls just love to be put in their place and there is no better way than a good, firm spanking.
But, REMEMBER!
Spanking is not punishment, it is training.
Spanking is NEVER done when angry.
Spanking is linked to a lesson.
Spanking can be administered for maintenance purposes as well.
Gentlemen, your princess is fragile, you are strong, if you are careless you can seriously damage her, so use your brain.
The benefits of edging. It sneaks up on you and makes you be what you fantasize being.
It will start with you wanting to look pretty.
It will develop into pleasing your man.
It will grow into the desire to be owned and collared.
You want to be completely controlled.
You want to be micro-managed.
You want each and every decision to be removed.
So well said. I wish I had thought of those words. So easily spoken. So accurate.
We all experience this.
Fill my inbox. I want to find all of you.
So feminine. Well done!
Who will walk with me and be my precious jewel?
Let’s have coffee.
Yana Weiman
I would love to give someone this experience.
deep in the pink fog
Philadelphia PA USA
Bonus points in you live in NYC!
Hey all of you! I sure could use making a few new friends. Pandemic life is getting to me. Shoot me a message. Let’s get to know each other.
I’m looking for my good girl. I’ll be there for you on your journey. I promise.
Good girls should edge because it makes them needy. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it makes them less selfish. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because orgasm is temporary, but arousal from the edgings is endless. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it helps them to behave. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it disciplines. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it teaches them self-control. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it teaches them to reject their own pleasure. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it makes them humble. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it teaches them patience. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because it shows their place. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because they deserve to be desperate. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because they are much cuter when aroused. I am a good girl.
Good girls should edge because they were told so. I am a good girl.
Something to keep in mind.
Honestly, I’m such a tease. I’ll forever act like I don’t want to be taken advantage of. I constantly act like I don’t want to submit. The truth is, I want you to force me. Don’t get me wrong, If I say my safeword I want you to stop. But, no matter how many times I say “no” I really mean “make me”. I want you to grab my jaw and force my mouth open while you tell me to be a good little whore for you. I want you to pull me over your lap and spank me until I’m dripping wet and sobbing while you whisper dirty things in my ear. I want you to pull my hair and slap my face and tell me that I’m just your pathetic little fucktoy. Then, after you turn me into a sobbing mess, I want you to tell me that I’m the prettiest little slut you’ve ever seen. Finger me while you tell me how good I feel around your fingers. Fuck me as hard as you can while telling me how pretty my moans sound. Then when I’m about to cum tell me to hold it. Tell me I don’t get to cum until after you do. Tell me that’s I’ll I’m good for. Pound into me until it hurts while you praise me for always being so good for you. Make me want to be your cheap slut and your princess and I’ll worship you like the god you are.
Always
Note to you “doms”.... Understand the value to your better half when you take responsibilities in the relationship. “No” is not just “No”. It goes further and has greater value to her. Understand your responsibility to the relationship. She will love you all the more for it.
I love begging him to extend my bedtime. I love when he says no.
I love asking if I can buy a sugary latte. I love when he says no.
I love asking if I can skip my workout because laziness. I love when he says no.
I love begging to watch an extra hour of TV on a weeknight. I love when he says no.
I love asking if I can buy that pretty top I saw when I went to return something, even though my credit card bill is ridiculous. I love when he says no.
I don’t ask because I want to be denied. Not really. I ask because I want something I’ve always immediately granted myself. I ask because I have desires and impulses and I need to express them. And even though there’s the teeniest bit of disappointment when he says no, there is also relief and inner peace. I feel taken care of. I feel like I’m becoming a better person with improved habits. I feel healthier, happier and less stressed. No more guilt. It’s gone.
It makes his yeses so rewarding. The latte tastes sweeter. The next episode of that TV show is funnier. The top is prettier and feels worth the money. With his permission, I can have guilt-free indulgences. I can find joy in things I’d often shamed myself for, the things you’re supposed to enjoy. That was no way to live.
I said it before it was my reality, and I’ll say it again:
Everything just feels better when you have permission.
A few days ago I have given my Doll her first bimbo rule. Every time we are in bed and she wants me to enter her pussy, she needs to tell me what a good girl she is. How obedient she is. What a pretty little dolly she is. What a cute kitten she is. And how her duty is to obey.
This way she will better learn to associate being an obedient pet with getting a hard cock in her pussy. Being a pretty slutty doll with pleasure.
She’s becoming such a nice little bimbo. I’m so proud of her.
(originally posted in September 2014)
Thank you.
What does it mean to me to be a complete bimbo?
Dress and look sexy all the time
Always have my hair and makeup done
Always be horny and ready to please
Always smile
Always agree and be positive
Eat healthy
Stay fit to have the perfect body
Always try to improve myself and be perfect for my partner
Listen to my partner
Obey my partner
Be happy
Old school wisdom.
📌 Home cooked meals are a necessity. If you are a homemaker you should not be ordering food in or picking up take-out.
📌 Your husband’s career goals are now your goals as well. You may have to put your own career aspirations on the back burner until your children are in school full time or no longer living in the house.
📌 Your husband has the final say in household/familial issues and your obedience is key.
📌 Always respond “yes” or “okay” when your husband asks something of you. This displays respect.
📌 Your tone will either foster communication or set it back; in essence your tone sets the tempo of the relationship. Be cognizant of the manner in which you speak to your husband. Aggressive and nagging speech can negatively affect your marriage.
📌 Your husband should always be sexually satiated…if he is not it is up to you to reevaluate how you can better please him. Your pleasure should be derived from pleasing him.
📌 A disorganized home breeds chaos and unrest. Always do your best to clean the house as best you can.
Something for everyone to consider.
A paid job has hours, a starting time, and a quitting time.
A housewife doesn’t have set hours; a housewife has work and all the work she does is an act of love for her husband, her family, her home, and herself.
The more I hear women refer to homemaking as a job, the more it sounds to me like it’s no different than a job outside the home – and homemaking is totally not like a job outside the home:
I don’t commute anywhere
I create my own routine that works best for me
I don’t take a break when I’m told to take a break
I don’t wear a uniform or office attire
I don’t share a bathroom with anyone other than my husband
I don’t put up with bosses, co-workers, customers, or clients
I don’t sit through mandatory meetings
I don’t wear a mask
I don’t give my all to people who don’t love me
I get to focus my attention on making my home awesome for my husband, myself, and our cats.
1. Let him provide and protect.
It is in a man’s nature to come to a woman’s rescue when they are in need. Don’t feel bad about being weak or in need of his protection, just accept it and thank him for it.
2. Always look beautiful for him.
Men admire beauty! If you want your man to appreciate, love and admire you, you must look your best. Wear form-fitting clothes, keep yourself in shape and take care of your skin!
3. Listen, but don’t answer.
Sometimes, when he’s upset or stressed about something, the most operative solution is to just listen. You will often internally disagree with him, but the last thing he needs is to hear it. If he’s frustrated about a thing from work, he needs to vent, to be understood. He doesn’t need to end up in another debate.
4. Attend to his wishes.
Sure, you may have a thousand other chores to do, and it can be a bit stressful if he asks you to do additional things. Maybe bake his favorite cake, or clean the bathroom. Just calmly say «Alright honey, I’ll get it done.» Even if you aren’t able to do it right away, he’ll appreciate your efforts.
5. Know when to ask him something/deliver bad news.
After being together for some amount of time, you’ll get to recognize when he’s in a bad mood, not up for getting asked favors, or hearing bad news. Do it when he’s relaxed, and in a good mood.
Though much of this is dated advise, most of the advise is timeless. Consider the areas where you have not done what you think you should have done. Do your part and he will grow to be far beyond the man you desire. Do your part and he will love you more than he imagined he ever could.
Timeless Advice for Wives from Blanche Ebbutt’s “Don'ts for Wives” (1913)
Don’t expect your husband to want to spend evenings at home if you don’t make home the most comfortable place.
Happiness and comfort can be found in many forms. Bless you.
Last night as Michael was bout ready to pound my ass, I realized the thing I loved most about being a bimbo is the freedom of not caring about all choices. While I love how hot I look and the self confidence it comes with and the lack of having to learn, so boring though Michael loves it, the thing I love most is knowing I don't have to make a decision. He asked me if I wanted pussy or ass and I honestly didn't care but I knew that if I did care, I could speak up and say "Fuck my pussy baby"(don't use Daddy really anymore since he is one) and he'd oblige. Knowing that I have a choice and not caring was one was so relieving. It extends beyond just bedroom stuff, like when it comes to food Michael will ask what I want and I can say I don't or if I don't want something I can say anything but Greek or if I'm unsure between options I can say either mexican or Italian and he will be like ok Mexican. It's nice not to have to feel like you have to choose. When I was younger and before became bimbo, I felt I had to be decisive on everything and caused me anxiety but now I know I don't but if I do choose its cool. That is really refreshing.
Side note Last night he didn't ask if I wanted sex because we fuck nightly but if I said I'm not in the mood(and I do feel confident to tell him that) he'd respect it.
Side note two Michael generally does let me make decisions that to him don't matter first. It's not that he can't make decisions or scared of my reaction, he just really doesn't care. He is super simple but super smart but the way he sees it is for like sex or food "my dick is going into your orifice" or "I love food and I'm bout to eat" I don't care.
Options to consider.
Consider others input but make sure you are the one deciding on what you want to do and are comfortable doing. Be comfortable in your own skin. :)
So, I have posted some different thoughts on bimbo and what I think means to be a bimbo. A lot of the responses I have received is that a bimbo is whatever you and your man want it to be. So, with that thought in mind, I have decided to post what I think a bimbo is, along with steps that I took and am taking to become a bimbo. Some of these steps I took before I decided to become a bimbo. So, with further ado here is what I think of a bimbo. I think a bimbo is a naturally happy girl who is submissive. She appears ditzy and unintelligent as she is more focused what brings her pleasure than scholastic endeavors. She is focused on her looks and is always trying to look sey that she is willing to put herself through plastic surgery to fix any flaws she might have, And finally, she is a girl, she epitomizes stereotypical feminity. So now that we know what we are looking for, we can now figure how to reach that goal. So here are MY steps to becoming a bimbo.
1. Smile more…I had a picture recently that goreanmann(another great blog), tifhat said nothing sexier than a great smile. I could not agree more, but a smile is not all, what does the smile represent. it should indicate…
2. Cheerfulness…So, gret you are smiling, but if the smile is one that I am going to slit your throat, well that is not really bimbo, so just be happier. Do things that will make you smile
3. Worry less…Become more oblivious to the worries of the world, this kind of goes with step 2
4. Focus on what brings you pleasure. Again this goes with number 2, but even if what you want to do is may get slightly ridiculed do it anyway if it makes you happy, and employ step 3 and just not worr what others think.
5. Say Yes..Now I am ripping off AnniDoll’s blog…I was going to say try new things but saying yes helps on two fronts…One it helps you find new things to bring you pleasure and two it makes you more submissive…Again, you may need to use step 3 if it is something that you are uncomfortable with.
6. Giggle, not laugh…Now that we have worked on part of the personality, let us try some behavior things. Instead of laughing, just let out a giggle instead. A giggle is a softer more girlish version of a laugh, you know it when you hear, and try and giggle more, see step 2.
7. Make up…Now I know some expect me to say, start applying your make up like a whore, but no, you want to take small steps, start with a little more, or if you don’t wear any at all, just add a little bit of blush, maybe a tinge of gloss.
8. Knickers…So we are feeling beautiful on the outside, you would expect that continue. But no, in my experience I feel that it can be uncomfortable to dress as a slut at first but no one know what sort of naughty girl you are if you start wearing sexy knicker first.
9. Exercise/Diet…This is more of an option step.. Let us say you are comfortable wearing some more revealing things but do not have the body for it…So just tone up, you want to look your best so treat your body right…Plus you will have more energy to be happier
10. Dress/Skirts…Skirts and dress are decidely female clothes, so start adding them to your wardrobe, and even wear stockings, underneath for that sexy look
11. Heels…Now that we are in a skirt, let us done some heels. Heels make your legs and bum look better. Start small if you are not use to wearing them. I have a post in my bimbo writing that kind of glosses over how to walk in them.
12. More Makeup…So, here we are, a knee length skirt some heels, stockings and possible a cute blouse. Our face is a little done up, we just need to add little more make up, really gloss those lips, add some eye shadow etc
13. Revealing outer wear..Now we can get to some of the more clothes, nothing to extreme, but maybe that knee length skirt becomes an inch or two short, that blouse loses a few buttons up top, or if not at work, maybe becomes a tank top that shoes a little belly and cleavage.
14. Degrading comments…This is the hard part…So here we are at a bar, wearing decent make up, rocking a mid thigh skirt, tank top, 2 inch heels and stockings. Well, that is going to attract some unsavory comments, go with step 1 2 and 3. Just smile, giggle, thank them and go on your way…Some will be usy I always recommend using my boyfriend is over there.
15. Orgasm…So far I have left off anything actual sexual…The reason for this is I want you to feel comfortable in your own skin…So now that you can take damn girl you got a nice arse, I think you feel good about yourself…so start, some of you may already have one, a routine of orgasming twice a day, three times if you can manage it..I always orgasm at least twice a day…once in the morning and once at night…If you do it in the morning, it make the entire day just happy.
16. Porn/Sex toys…So let us say you are fairly inexperienced in sex, just a few romps with some boyfriends that left you not to excited about sex…Watch porn, study, see some of the stuff that they do, if you have a boyfriend watch it with him…maybe you can try some stuff see if that excites you. I listed toys as part of the orgasm, if you having trouble with getting off with your fingers try some toys…
17 Accessorize…Now we get to doll ourself up like we did our barbies as a child…Some of you may wonder why this is so far down the list…so what if I am wearing some bracelets or ear rings…Well when I think of accessories I think of more body modification sort…Such as ear rings but maybe have a belly ring, tongue ring, or add some extra ear rings…Stuff that is considered trendy
18. Sluttier Dressing So now we re getting more and more comfortable let step it up a notch…Wear skirts that show of the top of your stockings. wear tube tops, etc You should be proud of your body at this poin show it off.
19. Schedule appointment at salon…The reason I am doing salon, is because a lot of girl’s do not know how to do their nails, or do real heavy make up. Schedule an appointment at salon, let them take care of you, you deserve…But while you are there ask them questions, like how do you do this what do you recommend when I do this…Most will be more than happy to answer you…(this is were I added streaks of blonde to my hair)
20. Have more sex…This is preferable with a significant other as there are some weirdos…If you have a man try and have sex once a day if you can spare it…just get use to having sex it is great for tension.
21. Learn more about sex…If you have sex once a day it can get kind of boring so spice things up, try new position, try some light bondage, spanking etc…just never let it become dull
22. Become comfortable with sex…So now that we having more and more sex and trying new things…You should already be pretty comfortable with sex so some one make a raunchy joke that normally you would have been awkward with just giggle at it, or even tell your own stories…If you bf wants his cock sucked in the mall parking lot…remember lways say yes and just do it…
23. Hair colour….Remember this is just my steps…But go ahead dye your hair something exotic remember we are doing it to look our best, so if your man like a red head go red, or whatever colour excites him.( this is where I am at)
24. Reassess…The step after this is to me one of the biggest and is the last one, so before we do it , let us make sure we can lie with being a bimbo…Can you live with people thinking that you some what slutty, can you live with people treating you like a ditz…Can you live with your man telling you. not asking but telling you to suck their cock…If yes proceed to step 25 if no reasses if you will ever be able to…Once you come to grips you can go to step 25, if you never can but are comfortable with what you are now then just live happy, or maybe change your look.
25. Extreme Body Mods. Now by extreme I do not mean getting GG sized tits but I mean go get surgery done, if you boobs to small get them up a size, need better,as goreannman puts it, thanks my man calls them this, cock pads plump them. Nose to big shrinking it. Do whatever you think will make you look pretty…Also, twat piercings and tit piercings are apart of this because these are more sexual piercings than the others. Disclaimer, I know a bimbo is submissie but this is decision that should ultimately be yours…You will be the one who has the boobs the rest of your life…Let your man hve osme input but make sure you are the one deciding.
So here are my 25 steps…I did not mean it to end up 25 I just thought of all I have done along with stuff I written down when younger….If you have any suggestiong please feel free I am certain I forgot something. or maybe did not add it to one of my posts such now that I think about it the giggling…When you do not understand something just giggle Remember the first two steps Smile and be cheerful…if being a bimbo does not amke you happy do be one…
Good Girls love doing their hair and makeup everyday.
It’s about being pretty. Wearing makeup is about crafting your look and maximizing your best features, while minimizing flaws. As a woman, you’re going to be chiefly evaluated for your appearance, so make it the best it can be.
Good Girls always strive to look their best.
It’s an art. Your face is a canvas that goes everywhere you do. Display your ever-improving skill at creating impressions and capturing attention.
Good Girls love to be pretty, be sexy, and be noticed.
It improves your confidence. It returns your focus to maximizing your appearance, and leaves you feeling more confident and put-together. That will carry over to your behavior as well.
Good Girls love doing their hair and makeup everyday
It shapes your mindset. Not feeling sexy? Do your makeup! It’s well known that when a routine is done regularly in a given mindset, simply doing that routine can begin to cause that mindset.
Good Girls always strive to look their best.
It shows you care. When you’ve done your makeup, anyone seeing you knows that it‘s important to you to look your best.
Good Girls love to be pretty, be sexy, and be noticed.
I started edging last week and got so horny that I made a new blog all for me to be a dummy little slut on. I’ve been edging every night and I’m sooooo horny all the time now!!
The descent of every doll:
Discover bimbofication/dollification/denial/brainwashing/mind control on Tumblr; it turns you on (despite what you think about it)
Start masturbating to it (that can't hurt right?)
Starting edging, just a little bit (you can totally control it!)
Edge yourself into a dumb daze (omg this is so much fun but where did the last three hours go?!)
Develop an edging addiction (it feels too good to stop)
Start a Tumblr specifically for your new interest (good girls make more good girls)
Send anons to your favourite blogs (his attention would feel like, SO good)
Empty your head of all thoughts (Daddy says it's better this way)
Become dumb, brainless porn
Being a bimbo isn’t just about the huge plastic tits or over-stuffed lips. Being a bimbo is about being pretty and pleasing.
If you cannot afford the surgery yet or if it isn’t possible due to your life situation, there are lots f things you can do to look more bimbo.
Focus on little details and ty to get them right.
Practice your make-up until it looks stunning and effortless.
Work out and get that slim, strong body.
Grow your nails, shape them and paint them.
Grow your hair long and care for it every day.
Practice walking in heels until you have a smooth, natural sway.
Smile more
There are lots of inexpensive ways to be prettier. Focus on them. Pick one area and work on it for 2 weeks then pick something else.
If you are in lockdown, it is not as if you have much else to do :)
Good Girls love doing their hair and makeup everyday.
It’s about being pretty. Wearing makeup is about crafting your look and maximizing your best features, while minimizing flaws. As a woman, you’re going to be chiefly evaluated for your appearance, so make it the best it can be.
Good Girls always strive to look their best.
It’s an art. Your face is a canvas that goes everywhere you do. Display your ever-improving skill at creating impressions and capturing attention.
Good Girls love to be pretty, be sexy, and be noticed.
It improves your confidence. It returns your focus to maximizing your appearance, and leaves you feeling more confident and put-together. That will carry over to your behavior as well.
Good Girls love doing their hair and makeup everyday
It shapes your mindset. Not feeling sexy? Do your makeup! It’s well known that when a routine is done regularly in a given mindset, simply doing that routine can begin to cause that mindset.
Good Girls always strive to look their best.
It shows you care. When you’ve done your makeup, anyone seeing you knows that it‘s important to you to look your best.
Good Girls love to be pretty, be sexy, and be noticed.
The truth is that feminism has been the single worst thing that has happened to American women. It did not liberate women at all- it confused them. It made their lives harder…. Their female nature tells them sex requires love; marriage is important; children are a blessing; and men are necessary. The culture, meanwhile, tells them to sleep around and postpone family life because that will cost them their identity. And, if their marriage doesn’t work out, it’s no big deal. They can always get divorced. Is it any wonder modern women are unhappy?
Suzanne Venker and Phyllis Schlafly, The Flipside of Feminism: What Conservative Women Know - And Men Can’t Say