I Hate It When People Say That People Choose To Be Trans, Or Say That Being Trans Is A Choice

I hate it when people say that people choose to be trans, or say that being trans is a choice

This week my dysphoria got so bad that I was considering death, I hated my body so much in that moment that I considered ruining my own prospects for a better life. If being trans was a choice, I don't think I'd choose to be trans, because of the dysphoria. Because of that suffering. Yes I've become part of a community and I've gotten closer with some good friends. Yes I've had happy moments. This does not negate the fact that I hate my body so much that I will start HRT and I'll spend money to start to make this body mine, make this body one that I feel I can be actually proud of.

If being trans was a choice then people in the world wouldn't have moments when their dysphoria is so bad that reaching for rope or metal feels like a better alternative to life

If being trans was a choice then there wouldn't be so much controversy about laws for trans people, it would be a simple choice like a tattoo or a piercing

If being trans was a choice then I would be happier, happier with my body, happier with my existence.

I hate all that say "being trans is a choice" because it shows how negligent they are to the lives of trans people.

I would like to clarify that not every trans person experiences dysphoria, no, and they are just as valid as trans people who do.

I dislike the people who are negligent of the pain that some trans people experience, negligent of the struggles trans people face so often in society

No, not everyone is trans-phobic, but not everyone understands. The ones who are so trans-phobic that they yell and scream in the streets or hold up signs or petition laws are so loud and it makes me feel like so few people actually care about or understand trans people.

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4 months ago

I'm so curious as to how these people don't like, click on the tags they put on their posts and scroll for 2 seconds and see what they are posting is wildly out of place.

I'm So Curious As To How These People Don't Like, Click On The Tags They Put On Their Posts And Scroll

Can perisex people not be Like This? When an intersex person asks them not to do something?

I'm So Curious As To How These People Don't Like, Click On The Tags They Put On Their Posts And Scroll
I'm So Curious As To How These People Don't Like, Click On The Tags They Put On Their Posts And Scroll

Why can't intersex people look in the intersex tag without seeing perisex peoples' mpreg, bigenital and omegaverse fanfiction? And why can't intersex people say something about it without being called "easily offended" and have their status as an intersex person questioned?

Hopefully with enough correction from intersex folks, people who do this will change.

1 year ago
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Found the top of an area with my sibling so fun. Rest is just casual scug existence


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4 months ago

Day 1 of HRT. Jan 17, 2025

Last night I took an estradiol and a spironolactone and this morning I took one of each as well. I'm taking them in the morning and before bed. I'm already feeling much happier in general. I have a minor headache but I think I'm just dehydrated. All of my meds dehydrate me plus estradiol makes me urinate more frequently. I'm so excited for more changes to take place.

I'm so happy that I was able to start HRT. I can't wait for this new second puberty journey to fully take off.

:3333333333

Aaaaaaa

This trans girl is so excited and I'm starting to try to do more with my day and hydrate way more.

:3


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9 months ago
I Wanted To Make Some Stamps Bc I've Been Seeing Some Floating Around. I'll Probably Make More Later,
I Wanted To Make Some Stamps Bc I've Been Seeing Some Floating Around. I'll Probably Make More Later,
I Wanted To Make Some Stamps Bc I've Been Seeing Some Floating Around. I'll Probably Make More Later,
I Wanted To Make Some Stamps Bc I've Been Seeing Some Floating Around. I'll Probably Make More Later,

I wanted to make some stamps bc I've been seeing some floating around. I'll probably make more later, but I'm happy with this batch :)

Feel free to use these!!! I would love to see some of my art in the wild. Though please credit me :D

2 months ago

like/reblog if u are:

a bitch

a bastard

an all around fool

an omnipresent all-powerful being

a sparrow

c̵͙̳͕̈͛ụ̷̔r̸̗͎̽̓͗͜s̴̨̈́̿͘e̸͍̰̜͊̈́d̵̛̫̙͍͝͝

capable of moving at immense, incomprehensible speeds

an eldritch being

no one will know which one u chose! :D

11 months ago
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An Urgent Warning For All My Queer Homies: There Are Malicious, False Ads Circulating On Social Media

An urgent warning for all my queer homies: there are malicious, false ads circulating on social media for HRT supplements designed to gather a list of trans people and their addresses.

Along with just being useless sugar pill supplements. Fun all around, right?

A good reminder to be vigilant about where you seek out gender affirming care, especially if you live in a suppressive state like I do. Source your supplies and care from reputable queer support groups and always do your research before doing business with an unfamiliar supplier.

It sucks ass that anyone has to be this vigilant, but this is where we are unfortunately. Be aware, not scared. That’s always been my policy, and I will do my part to keep the community informed when something dangerous arises. Stay safe, y’all.


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4 months ago

Pride clinic opens finally today, hopefully I can get an appointment set todayyyyyyyyyy

I only have so many days I'm going to be able to have an appointment in the near futureeeee

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I'm anxiety and patience is waning and aaaaaa

Ive already left a message to them via call and a text

I am just impatient and over hyped myself for today and I need to breath


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5 months ago

I have so many people asking me to help their endeavors for leaving Palestine and reaching safety but it saddens me because I don't have the money for anything. Not for funding myself, much less funding those who truly need it. I'm so sorry for all of the Palestinians who have been suffering for so long. I hope things get better shortly, though I know that may be a hope that will have to extend for many months-years


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