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Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Cars (Movies) Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Salley Carrera/Holley Shiftwell Characters: Sally Carrera, Holley Shiftwell Additional Tags: Car Sex, not humanized Summary:
A rainy night in the desert, and two cars who can't resist each other. Yes, this is lesbian car-on-car. No, I'm not sure anyone will enjoy this.
I didn’t make that fic.
Found this on Archive of Our Own one time. I usually avoid reading this type of thing, or at least read once and never again since I have a pretty good memory of things, but i don’t know I’m weirdly intrigued.
Honestly I don’t read smut... but I found intriguing was it got me thinking about my favorite Cars girls as a femslash pairing. It’s written in a way that honestly does feel in character for both. Holley being nervous and flustered about her attraction and Sally being the more bold and confident of the two. That feels in-character for them (along with Sally being the one with the experience and initiates it and being on top). There’s also the description of the body language the two have that Sally can tell Holley’s attracted to her and giving Holley the confirmation that she likes her too. Thus when they do the deed they are giving permission and consent with Sally leading the way.
I shouldn’t have to praise that part because that’s something that SHOULD be understand by people. Consent and both sides taking initiative. Not just one party saying “WE HAVE SEX WHEN I WANT IT! YOUR OPINION OR FEELING OF IT DON’T MATTER!” Oh and the feeling that they actually do like each other and see each other as equals.
Any relationship, whether romantic, platonic, or even sexual, should have all parties feel equal to each other in the emotional sense.
Well that’s my two cents, going to back to start planning my own femslash fanfic while also thinking about the canon ships.
Oh, and a possible Cars Hunger Games-esque Rebellion AU of Francesco/Sally.
I like shipping.
You are not a creep if you find yourself sexy with your disability aids. full stop. If your partner is disabled, you are not fetishizing them if you find them sexy when they're in their wheelchair, or wearing their diaper, or have braces on, etc.
Disabled people are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to find them sexy. People with facial/limb differences and other physical differences are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to be attracted to them.
The problem comes from lack of consent and dehumanization. Expecting all disabled people to fit your sexual fantasy and sexualizing them openly without their consent (i.e. posting/reblogging normal pictures of a disabled person on your fetish blog or sexually harassing a disabled stranger) is fetishization and horrible. Asking us how we have sex or taking secret photos of us to jack off to later is creepy and crossing the boundry into dehumanizing fetishization. Seeing us and our sexuality as an oddity or a funny joke is not okay.
Reminder, sex toys were first and foremost created by and for disabled people. We have always been having sex and have always been seen as attractive by our admirers, without them fetishizing us. Having sex with a consenting disabled person isnt rape, and yes it is possible for us to eagerly consent! While some disabilities make it hard to consent, that isn't true for all of us.
We get horny, we have sex, we jack off, we wear sexy clothes and show off our bodies. We aren't freak shows for abled peoples amusement nor objects for fetishization. We aren't poor innocent virgins who don't know what sex is, we are a diverse and beautiful community all connected by our disabilities.
(post is edited for terminology, please rb this version instead)
everyone dunking on that automated fleshlight sex toy needs to remember that disabled people get horny too ok 💜
I don't know why but one of the worst things that I experience daily is food apathy, more precisely I'd call it food hatred or food phobia. When I just do things on its own without much work, I am okay. But oh man, when I need to eat my brain gets really messed up. If you tell me I need to eat next week or 3 hours, to me that is being delivered a letter with execution date. It hurts me mentally when I got to eat, my brain slows down and I look like infected in Shikki. I have no clue why it hurts so much, maybe my brain cant handle the idea of slowing down to get extra fuel, but for me it is indeed awful.
Naruto 2
Ok.... Anyway, I hope this does not crash at least in 3 paragraphs....
Gaara is character we all know for the fact he was lonely and hurt, so he wanted to repay back and saw the world as black and white where one lives for themselves. This is so relatable, because the world be like that. Naruto made connection with him, since they can relate. Naruto's way of life rubbed on Gaara. In ultimate ego centric way of existence, there is nothing but constant destruction. Gaara understands it deeply, so he abandons it for hope, for ability to enjoy something longlasting
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK UFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
Second paragraph. The idea of dreams and the world of virtual reality, the project tsukoyi no me can become like that, in the real world we have AI and nuclear synthesis. So that means, humans are capable of having ego centric fantasy in virtual reality with contemporary driven energy consumptions using nuclear energy. i ask you IF THIS IS EVIL if it benefits you or if its evil from authenticity? SIGH
it crasehs every fucking time. FUCK THIS PLACE
Third paragraph. Just think of these two examples and think of what I said in previous lines. Ignore the video of me sleepin'.
Oh, before I go and actually do work for once in my life, I guess it is ironic I make another post but I need to REMOVE BRAINROT, I need to let it out.
Great britain, every time here and there videos pop up and I click on them, they are of british people complaining about islam and saying they suffer.
I have always despised UK. My life is not about women giving me compliments, nor is it hanging out getting drunk with friends. I see thing I love and protect them but if everyone in Russia became brown or other ridiculous idea, sure! Who cares? I don't need to kill anyone. Man, whoever allowed me to blog needs to be put under execution!!!!!
I want you to think of what I've said there.
British people again make these shitok videos "britain aint no same"... nigga yeyeyeyeyey! But their argument is flawed. They can't demonstrate objectively why britain needs to be protected. Migrants work. British whites do not work. They have caused this in the first place. Even Japan, the most racist country keeps increasing amount of immigrants because they need these doctors and engineers from India. THEY NEED these professions. May I ask you, brit, whether a person becomes doctor or plumber for sole sake of money? Trust me, a very good scammy plumber can make lots of money, if he thought of that. Maybe, it's time to start thinking that people work for other reason, not solely for monetary but their own sacrifice for a greater purpose.
Nazis. I don't understand. Well, biologically all of us will die so I don't see your point, why fight so badly for myself when I am so worthless, alone?!!!
None of it matters anyway, I fucked Artoria Perdragon a month ago or two months ago, by the time you read this UK is already dead.
Artoria Perdragon is built for my cock, brits lost.
Yes, I a m very sad man. But I wanted to show it.
i may have played with chatgpt a lot... between november and december days....
sorry.
Remember, you pommies!!!!
Sick culture is that weak by hedonism, britbongos crumptards.
GOD DANGIT WHY DON’T WE FUCKING TEACH THIS TO PEOPLE
This won’t make your blog look ugly. How could you not reblog this? REBLOGGING THIS COULD SAVE A LIFE!!!
To The Once Ingénue
The giver of blood and love is fragile
as it beats faint within the fold of your
broken breast. The giant’s grass of the forest
sways gently in the wind, unaware of your
selfish weight crushing the earth below.
You used to dance with grace as light as a breeze
among the blossoms of spring, but now you
have been stripped and knocked down, lying
heavy in the cold dirt of disenchanted
winter. You bury yourself in the decay of your
innocence as the rain of remorse now pours down
your cheeks. The one who did this to you feels no
regret. You let him take the silver trinkets
from your pain-streaked body and he
hung them from the bedpost that he might
admire those trophies of his conquest.
You have given up that blissful ignorance that you
once held so dear. Now you must stand alone and
face the world, for he is not there to lift you.
There is no changing what has been done.
Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Before our first date you bought me white lilies. I guessed you didn’t know the symbolism. But as the two of us become one for the who-knows-what time – you, deep inside me and I, clenched tight around you – I wonder if you did. Sometimes I feel as if we have become dead together. Your burning skin pressed against me, answering my need, no longer smells like cinnamon, only sweat. As your lips caress my collarbone, my breast, my navel you no longer taste strawberry, only salt. This four-story apartment building, box-shaped and bland, no longer is a stepping stone to a better life, but just another reminder of how our plans fell through. I remember the lilies as your hands squeeze my aching flesh, too warm for a corpse. The sun rises and the birds chirp and I convince myself that we are not yet dead. Even if that sun has long faded our yellow curtains. Even if we hardly speak. Even if you no longer call me liebe, though we still make love. Even if your touch is the only thing I’m still living for.
Happy Valentine’s Day everyone ❤️🎉🥰☺️🎉🌚
Yeah, when me and Santa bang-it-out on Christmas eve-Eve to get him hyped for Christmas Eve sometimes I put his entire beard in my mouth to feel the hairs saturate with my saliva and then I yank it back out through my teeth making sure to suck hard as I pull so it comes out mostly dry. It’s important to leave cookies for Santa because his blood sugar gets really low because he’s diabetic and if he catches you skimping out on him he’ll kill your entire family in their sleep in a post nut clarity fueled rage. Btw
Note To Society #21
You don’t owe anyone sex. No one owes you sex. Just because someone likes you doesn’t mean you need to have sex with them if you aren’t comfortable with it. Same goes for dating. You can’t force anyone into dating you, or participating in sexual interactions, just because you feel entitled to it. Sex and relationships are mutual agreements made both BOTH parties, and any differing decisions should be respected.
Overwhelmed (Part 19 Vinny x Garmadon)
(I suggest you check out part 1-18 if you haven't already)
(SEXXXXXXXXXX DO NOT READ IF UNCOMFORTABLE)
Garmadon grabbed Vinnys' hips and gently pushed into him. Vinny whimpered out and dug his nails into the bed sheets while stuffing his face. The larger was honestly worried he really didn't want to hurt Vinny. "You okay?" Garmadon asked as he pushed in a little deeper. "Mhm...Y-Yes!" Vinny whimpered before squirming around trying to get comfortable. "Vinny you're moving too much, it's gonna hurt more" the larger said as he held onto his lovers' hips trying to keep him still. Garmadon let out a low growl as he pushed in deeper "C-Careful!" Vinny said out his voice sounding a little pained, as gentle as he wanted to be they weren't going to get anywhere if they kept doing it like that.
The larger pushed in deep enough, "S-Sweetheart I'll give you a moment to get used to it" the oni said as he squeezed Vinnys' thighs. The smaller nodded and kept his face pressed into the pillow. After a moment Vinny wasn't letting out small whimpers of pain instead it turned into soft pleasured moans. "G-Garm...you can s-start moving now..." Vinny moaned out softly. "You sure? I don't mind waiting as long as you need" Garmadon asked hoping that the smaller didn't feel rushed, "Y-yea I'm sure just be c-careful..." Vinny responded. Garmadon wasn't gonna argue with him and began gently thrusting in and out of the smaller. The larger let out a groan while Vinny began moaning out Garmadons' name. "F-Fuck~" Vinny whimpered out as the larger picked up the speed. Garmadon wasn't all the way in yet and he was planning of going in all the way. "You're doing so well for me~" Garmadon whispered into Vinnys' ear before gently biting on his shoulder and beginning to mark him with hickeys. This action made Vinny moan out louder and hold onto the bed sheets tighter. "A-Almost all they way in sweetheart~" Garmadon whispered into his ear, "T-There's more?!" Vinny whimpered out surprisingly earning a soft chuckle form the larger.
Eventually Garmadon was all the way in while Vinny was bright red unable to focus on anything. "You're doing so well~" the oni whispered into his lovers' ear as he began thrusting in and out earning loud moans from the smaller. "H-hah fuccck-ahhh!~" Vinny moaned as Garmadon picked up speed. The smaller was a mess and Garmadon began tugging back on his hair causing his moans to be louder. "So loud for me...Iove it" The larger said in a seductive sound. "F-faster a-ahhHHH~!!" Vinny said before getting thrusted into faster the larger didn't have to hear Vinny say anything more than faster because he wasn't complaining.
"Who's my good boy~?" the larger said, "ahh m-me~" Vinny whimpered out as he was slammed into repeatedly by the larger. The poor thing was so overwhelmed by pleasure he could barely form sentences. The oni began jerking Vinny off which caused him to be severely overstimulated. Garmadon continued to thrust trying to find a very specific spot to pound into the smaller. "A-AHH~ G-Garm~!" Vinny moaned out loudly as Garmadon hit his prostrate. The larger smirked, "W-want me hit right there, don't y-you~" the growled before biting harder on the smallers' shoulder. "Y-Yes! Please~!" Vinny whimpered out submissively. The oni obeyed the smaller and began thrusting in and out of the smaller hitting his prostrate directly. "You're s-such a slut, allowing your body to be dominated like this~" Garmadon whispered into the smallers' ear. Vinny moaned in response, "G-Garm! I'm c-close~!" Vinny whimpered out as he felt a knot form in his stomach.
"Good~" Garmadon whispered as he began thrusting in and out of Vinny at an inhuman speed. A few more thrusts and Vinny came earning a seductive chuckle from Garmadon. Vinny was dazed his face was bright red and he couldn't contain himself. The larger tugged back on his hair making him moan, "We're not done yet, my angel~" Garmadon said before flipping the smaller on his back making him yelp out softly. "I want a better look at your face~" he whispered making the smaller whimper out before moaning as the larger started thrusting in and out again. "OHH FUCK~!" Vinny moaned out extremely loudly. The room was filled up with moans and groans as the two were at this for a while.
Garmadon groaned as he felt himself becoming close, he didn't want to tell Vinny because he wanted to see him be caught off guard. "F-fuck..you're so cute~" Garmadon said trying to distract the smaller. As his thrusts became slower but clearly the thrusts were still enough to keep Vinny a mess. A couple more thrust and Garmadon came causing him to groan and Vinny louder. The larger kissed Vinny gently, "You did so..well" the oni said as he breathed heavily, "I-I did?" Vinny whimpered out his voice really shaky and his eyes unable to concentrate on anything. "Yea so well for me...let's get you cleaned off the you can get some rest, you're gonna feel like shit later" Garmadon said as he picked up Vinny.
(JGHFFGFHKHHJTFHGF THIS SHIT IS SO GOOOOOOOOOOFYYY IT'S A HUNDRED TIMES BETTER IN MY HEAD I HAD TO DUMB IT DOWN FOR YOU, ALSO next chapter will be aftercare cause it's important for out precious angel, Vinny,)
Hey! I have personally really enjoyed all the guides you have written about cruising, Grindr and your other sex guides. Would you be interested (or maybe I have completely missed this) about writing a guide to sex as a disabled person? I am personally very interested in sex but scared to join the party and cruising culture because of my disability, chronic pain and discomfort (and my questioning to how I can keep covid safe in hook up culture).
Hi there!
This was a complicated ask for me to receive, I think, because it made me very happy to be asked and that someone is asking and feels empowered to ask, but also I just don't feel I'm equipped to answer it - I think that in the past year or two I've been unpacking a lot of feelings about disability and particularly the ways in which I mask or just don't openly discuss disability with ableds and randoms, there's a lot of old anxiety and pain there for me that I'm just not done working with.
Basically, I'm not equipped, I don't think, to write more extensively about cruising and casual sex with disability in mind as I'm exploring it, especially as I've become a lot more disabled in recent years.
I will say that like... For me, what's been most positive in my sex life, and indeed my life as a whole, is being in community with other disabled people, and sex with other disabled people, particularly those who either have similar disabilities to my own and/or who have a lot of experience with others who are similarly disabled, means that they're going to be more aware of my potential limitations.
For me, being autistic and also having various issues - arthritis, some old injuries probably as a result of hypermobility or whatever, my asthma - means that I'm often not very cognizant of my limitations until I reach those limitations exactly, and then I'm immediately like, okay, I have to stop RIGHT NOW RIGHT NOW.
With other disabled people, autistic or otherwise, I don't have an issue tapping out like that - and with partners who aren't physically disabled or chronically ill, but are still autistic or otherwise neurodivergent, that's grand. But with like, normie hookups on Grindr? That's a lot more complex.
Like, I frequently don't use words like "arthritis" or similar, I might mention that I have an injury, but normally just that I prefer certain positions, until after we've had sex because of the ways in which people treat and desexualise disabled bodies - a while back I had a hook up, mentioned my arthritis after fucking, and he was immediately like, "Oh, there's this crystal healer on YouTube" etc lmao.
So yeah, I would recommend seeking community with other disabled people if you can - a lot of BDSM spaces and broader BDSM communities tend to have a lot of disabled people in them. Obviously a lot of the older veterans in these communities will become more disabled as they grow older, and so elder members (as in actually old and elderly, not Tumblr's definition of "elder" that's like 30+ lmao) of kink and queer communities, but also disabled people for various reasons are often drawn to kink and power play and different forms of sex work, and subsequently our expertise shows up a lot in these communities. You can always enter these spaces for the social benefits even if you're not interested in or able for harder play, etc.
One benefit about these is that there'll frequently be more online spaces or smaller, more limited munches - I obviously can't promise that people in your area will definitely be covid safe or even super covid aware, but you should at the very least be able to check these boundaries online before you approach them in person, or if you approach them at all, you know?
I did an interview with Transpired Media a few weeks ago, and part of mine and Anonsee Maytrix's discussion was about our respective experiences being desexualised as disabled trans people in queer communities, and while I don't have any more extended guides or similar, this video might scratch a bit of an itch?
But yeah, I just don't feel like I have more valuable advice or useful input, I'm afraid, as I'm still exploring my own feelings and limitations myself other than just... going stealth about being disabled.
I'd definitely encourage people to put their own resources in the replies and reblogs if they do desire!
most valuable lesson i can teach you is labia and ballsack are the same
what if sex was excruciatingly painful, and childbirth was pleasurable.
'Princess wand' yeah ok whatever now lick my bitch baton