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filmes sobre t.a e minha opiniao sobre eles !

ultimamente so tenho assistido filmes com essa tematica pra me inspirar e me animar um pouco, eu gostei bastante de todos e me identifiquei mt, e vim aq indicar p voces <3

to the bone: tem na netflix, mas eu posso arranjar o drive caso nao tenham. mt gente fala mal dele mas eh simplesmente pq ele "expoe" mt o ed kkk eh so pq a protagonista usava tumblr

my skinny sister: é um filme sueco e eu assisti no yt com legenda em ingles pq nao achei o drive dele :(, mas eh mt bom juro, ele é MUITO real pq o diretor ja foi anorexico. eu gostei muito dele

starving in suburbia: sim, ele dnv KKK, falo muito dele aq pq eh um dos meus favs de vdd, por mais q a principal seja chatinha eu achei bom!

dancing in the glass: tem na netflix, eu gostei mt. é tipo um cisne negro mas com 2 principais problemáticas, uma tem bulimia e a outra provavelmente anorexia (mas n deixa mt claro q ela tem t.a pq foca mais na outra)

é isso! eu to procurando mais filmes q falam sobre t.a, se eu ver mais eu indico p voces <3

(fiz esse post pra me distrair um pouco e pra deixar meu blog mais ativo.. to em nf e quero chegar nas 32h !)

pinte suas unhas, não coma

tome banho, não coma

hidrate seu cabelo, não coma

faça skin care, não coma

escove seus dentes, não coma

beba água, não coma

faça exercícios, não coma

tome um chá, não coma

limpe a casa, não coma

leia um livro, não coma

se destraia e não coma

Paint your nails. Don't eat.

Take a shower. Don't eat.

Do a hair mask. Don't eat.

Do a face mask. Don't eat.

Brush your teeth. Don't eat.

Whiten your teeth. Don't eat.

Drink water. Don't eat.

Go for a walk. Don't eat.

Make tea. Don't eat.

Do laundry. Don't eat.

Clean your house. Don't eat.

Brush your teeth again. Don't eat.

Read a book. Don't eat.

Lembre-se de ter a água como melhor amiga sempre! ♡

só se passam duas coisas na minha cabeça: Comer compulsivamente e não comer absolutamente nada.

Lembre-se: peso não se perde, se livra!

ten small habits to start doing ♡

never go to the bathroom with your phone. It's gross , wastes time , and spreads germs.

are you a forgetful person? set alarms and reminders for things you need to do (drinking water , homework , showering, etc)

be kind! always say hi to people you know and smile at strangers. don't be afraid to compliment people too!!

cant be bothered exercising? try dancing instead. this could be learning a new dance , a Kpop choreography , literally anything!

put screen-time on your phone/devices. maybe start off with 10pm - 7am being the time that you shouldn't be on any devices, and then gradually increase it. it will help you be more productive and sleep better.

if you have a sweet tooth like me but are still trying to be healthy , try starting off the day with something sweet! fruits and oats , honey and porridge , french toast , pancakes , etc.

try cooking/baking/making something new each week. i allocate a Sunday each week to looking through a recipe book , walking down to a grocery store , coming back and baking something! cooking is a very helpful skill.

double cleanse your face every morning and night. even if you don't wear makeup , it helps get rid of any excess dirt and leaves your face fresh and clean!

when using skincare (more specifically moisturiser), never rub the product into your skin in a downward motion! it can drag your face down over time. try an upward or circular motion instead.

keep your house tidy , especially your room / workspace. tidy space = tidy mind.

dreamy quotes to live by ✧˚₊‧

"Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars and see yourself running with them."

"Compliment recklessly! Say the nice things 5that come to your mind! We've got better things to do than resist the urge to be kind."

"Her world was the colour of perles: White, pink, and softly glowing."

"In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different."

"I like nonsense; it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living."

"My goal in life is just to be a very warm person. I want to be as loving and kind as I possibly can be."

"Sometimes you have to create your own sunshine."

"It's part of her beauty, this quality of being not quite there, dreamlike."

"A girl should be two things: who she wants and what she wants.

"They say love is the best investment; the more you give, the more you get in return."

"Elegance is the only beauty that never fades. A woman can be beautiful as well as intellectual."

"Imagination is everything. It's the preview of life's coming attractions."

"Treat yourself like the princess you are and make Aphrodite proud."

"I Love soft-spoken and loving. There is so much power in femininity; don't ever look at it as being weak."

"Luxury must be comfortable; otherwise, it's not luxury."

As always, please feel free to share your own favourite quotes in the comments!! ♡*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛

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Little things that improved my life 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

Accepting my sleep schedule. I'm a night owl; I focus at night, I'm calm at night, I'm motivated at night. For a long time, I tried to fight this since everyone always preaches getting up early, but since I started accepting my natural sleep schedule, I've been feeling a lot better and have become way more productive.

"drink more water". TEA. Tea is the secret here. I will be honest, I hate drinking water; it doesn't matter if I have a cute water bottle or a cute glass, I still hate it. TEA.

Replying quickly. I used to be one of those people who get a text message and think, "Oh, I'll reply to that later", and then just forget about it entirely. Now, I text back as soon as I see the message. This has not only improved my texting anxiety (which I cause on my own by now replying and then feeling bad) but also deepened my connection to my friends. <3

Keeping my circle small and being okay with that. Over the past months, I've had this sudden urge to expand my social circle and get to know more and more people, especially after I moved in August. However, this quickly ended in what I like to call my "social burnout". I was tired, annoyed, and overwhelmed. It took a few weeks for it to settle, but I've come to the conclusion that I would much rather have a smaller circle of people who I trust and love deeply than a huge group of friends, and that's totally okay.

Wearing what I like. Even though I live in a big city, I'd still say that my style can sometimes be a bit more extravagant than what most people wear, another point is that I'm very uncomfortable with pants so I only wear skirts, which is also considered a bit odd where I live. But over the past years, I've come to accept that and have become so sure of myself and found such comfort in my style that I now just wear whatever I like, and it makes every day a little bit nicer.

Reading and writing for pleasure. Reading books outside of my studies and spending time researching topics that simply interest me is such a great way to calm your mind. Same for writing, I always like to say that to write is to think; putting your thoughts on paper in cohesive and well-crafted sentences that you can then reread and think over again is such a liberating thing to do.

Reaching out more. fuck the whole "double texting" and "no contact" thing. If you want to speak to someone because they mean something to you, then just do it. Unless they specifically asked for space, you shouldn't feel bad about wanting to be in touch with them. Many even really appreciate it when you show that you truly care. Let's stop the nonchalant act, and instead, let's face deep emotions and true vulnerability. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own little insights and things that helped you improve comments! <3

my insta: @ malusokay

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energy givers vs energy takers

Energy givers:

making time for your hobbies

your favourite music

spending time outside

a balanced diet

literature, poetry, and art

quiet moments / alone time

proper rest and quality sleep

good company and conversations

taking time to reflect

exercise, stretching, going on walks

Energy takers:

consuming negative media

people pleasing

doom scrolling

surrounding yourself with negative people

overworking and overthinking

not living in the moment

procrastinating

chasing after people who don't deserve you

clutter and mess

changing yourself to fit in

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3

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little things to feel softer

Being kind to mean people

Teas with honey and sleeping early

A fun collection of cute mugs from little antique stores

Pearls and dainty jewellery

Buying flowers for yourself or a loved one, not just on special occasions.

being kind just because you want to, with no hidden motives, just genuine kindness

Reading and writing poetry

Self-care nights and long bubble baths

Going to the farmer's market to buy fresh fruits

No phone in the morning

Paying attention to the little things: changing seasons, moon phases, blooming flowers, etc...

Calm hobbies like painting, knitting, reading, baking

Matcha and tea over coffee

Being kind to stray animals and befriending them

Sending handwritten letters to your friends

Try cooking from scratch, make some jam, maybe attempt a sourdough... (nara smith my queen)

Flower prints and sundresses

Lacy tops and light colours

Taking time to appreciate art, listen to music, visit museums and art exhibitions, go to concerts, the theatre, cinema, etc..

Wearing only natural fabrics

Vanilla scented EVERYTHING

not sure how I feel about the title, but this all leans into the "softer/calmer life" thing; you guys get me lol. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

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im just a girl🎀

girl exorcism ⊹˚. ♡

cuz sometimes we all get a little off track and need to wake the fuck up again !!! 🫶🩷

──★ ˙ ̟🐰 physical! 🎀

have an everything shower

do ur whole skincare routine

brush ur teeth, floss, dental care

arrange a new workout routine

dance, pilates, exercise, move around

go on a walk and thrive in nature like a plant or a tree

find and try out some new cute hairstyles

pamper urself! face masks, spa day, etc.

get ur beauty sleep

change your bedsheets and pillowcases

clean your makeup brushes

go through all haircare, skincare, makeup, etc. products

organise and donate or throw out all of the clothes you don't wear or don't make you feel like your own dream girl

──★ ˙ ̟🎀 mental! 🧸

write down all your thoughts. every one.

write down all the problems in your life right now

have a mental breakdown over something tiny and let all ur emotions out by bursting into tears

write down what you want and go over your dreams and goals

read over or write out your highest self and everything about them

analyse your mindset at the moment

write what limiting beliefs you have

remember and remind yourself of your "why", keep it somewhere you can see

write down all your bad habits

write down some new habits to counteract them, become your best self and to work towards the future

vaunt and go on a huuuge rant to urself about how beautiful and perfect and amazing you are bc you literally are <3

──★ ˙ ̟💬 personal! 🎀

sweep your room

open the curtains

wipe down all your mirrors

dust down all surfaces

go through all ur clothes and chuck out or donate ones you don't wear

clean out under your bed !!!!!!!!

rearrange your shelves

get some new posters & wall prints

go through all of the books, movies, series, content you're consuming right now and choose new ones that align with ur highest self

──★ ˙ ̟🎀 digital! 🎧

go through ur following on every platform and delete everyone that makes you feel even remotely negative

uninstall a bunch of apps you don't need

install useful, helpful, purposeful apps

go on the hunt for accounts that make you laugh, happy, or confident

redecorate your home page

revamp your social medias (pinterest, tumblr, instagram, etc)

go through all your playlists and reorganise your music

delete all depressing songs and media

go through your contacts, rename, delete, etc

It’s so toxic

Sapphic Th1n$p0

I am yearning.

TW 4n4

My 4n4 motivation :

- [ ] Hunger hurts but starving works

- [ ] What you eat in private is what you wear in public

- [ ] Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels

- [ ] always remember that food is not a reward, restriction is.

- [ ] Junk you’ve craved for an hour or the body you’ve craved for a lifetime? Your choice

- [ ] Eat for the body you want not the one you have

- [ ] Moment on your lips forever on your hips

- [ ] Try to eat less then you did yesterday, and one day soon you won’t feel hungry anymore

- [ ] Imagine the feeling of hands grabbing your slim waist

- [ ] One day or day one?

- [ ] You’ll never regret restricting you’ll always regret giving into the craving

- [ ] If you binge, stop yourself as soon as possible. DON’T COMPOUND YOUR MISTAKE!

- [ ] fat lasts longer than flavor

- [ ] losing weight is hard, being fat is hard, choose your hard

- [ ] do not reward yourself with food, you’re not a dog

Bom dia borboletinhas🦋

Ontem na aula tive uma atividade sobre o setembro amarelo e vi uma imagem muito boa, na hora ela me motivou e pensei que poderia motivar algumas borboletinhas que estivessem angustiadas, nervosas ou ansiosas por causa do seu progresso

Constantemente falamos de ter constância e foco, e isso gera automaticamente uma mentalidade que constância é algo em linha reta e que nunca terá altos e baixos, e na verdade não é bem assim!! Constância é não deixar de fazer, é não desistir e fazer algo, nem que seja o mínimo, o importante é fazer, saber respeitar seus limites é o que nos faz ser constantes nas áreas das nossas vidas!

Os dias de baixa produtividade são necessários para os dias de alta produtividade serem possíveis, e tá tudo bem. O que importa de verdade é continuar a cada dia que passa e não desistir do progresso!

Como afinar a cintura

1- Faça exercícios para o core

uma coisa muito muito normal que eu vejo é gente que faz exercício para abdômen lateral achando que vai diminuir a cintura, NÃO VAI!! esses exercícios são para desenvolver o tanquinho, logo vai te deixar com a cintura mais larga. Saiba os exercícios que você faz!!

Alguns que me ajudaram MUITO a perder medidas na cintura:

prancha invertida (30s)

bird dog (10x)

prancha com marcha alterada

prancha invertida com levantamento de quadril (15x)

abdominal elbow to knee (15x 4)

bird dog alternado (10x)

2- Faça vacuum abdominal

o vacuum reduz MUITO a barriga e a cintura, pra fazer vc só tem que expirar e puxar a barriga pra dentro e segurar, faça por quanto tempo vc conseguir segurar o ar, e repita por no mínimo 2min

3- Faça massagens redutoras!

eu disse isso no meu último blog mas vale reforçar, as massagens ajudam demais! fazendo elas enquanto faz vacuum da um grande resultado também

4- use cintas

se vc não tiver cintas você pode fazer uma caseira usando fita crepe/papel filme, basta recolher a barriga pra dentro e segurar enquanto enrola a fita/ papel filme em volta da cintura e barriga. Também pode comprar shorts de academia em tamanhos menores (tipo vc usa M use um P) que vai servir como um tipo de cinta também.

5- treine superiores!

um meio de fazer sua cintura parecer maior é deixando sua dorçal e ombros mais largos.

Não tenha medo de treinar superiores! vejo muitas garotas falando que não gostam pq ficam menos femininas, mas é só não pegar muito peso!

6- Chás redutores

um que eu tomo que funciona muito bem é de limão com louro, basta espremer 2 limões e colocar 2 folhas do louro na água e deixar esquentar, beba antes de dormir e no outro dia você já vai estar com a barriga e cintura menores .

7- consistência

não deixe de fazer tudo isso dos outros tópicos, sua cintura não vai diminuir 10cm da noite pro dia, tenha paciência, dedicação e consistência! nada vem de graça e nada vem rápido!

melhores partes de ser magra

eu vi uma diva falando no t1ktok das melhores partes de ser magra e uma que me pegou muito foi:

não é a roupa que te escolhe, é você quem escolhe a roupa

e não, não é a primeira vez que ouço essa frase, mas senti que ela falou com tanta honestidade e alívio (já que aparentemente ela emagreceu muito pra chegar ali).

Não adianta você chorar e se lamentar que está gorda enquanto não parar de comer, você é o que come então não coma nada!!!!!!!

Você não precisa comer, isso só vai te fazer ficar mais gorda ainda, a comida só te deixa feia e inchada.

Foque no seu objetivo de ficar extremamente magra e delicada, pense em como todos vão sentir inveja do seu corpo, como você vai ser notada em todos os lugares e em como você vai finalmente se sentir bem com você mesma, faça isso por você!

A Ana é nossa amiga, a única que quer nos ajudar.♡

°❀⋆.ೃ࿔.*:･･:*.ೃ࿔.⋆❀°

⋆.˚✮𐙚✮˚.⋆

my biggest one

Não importa muito quantos kg você já perdeu, se você manter velhos hábitos alimentares em algum momento esse peso vai voltar pra você, é apenas questão de tempo. Por isso você precisa ir ao extremo, corte definitivamente tudo que te faz ficar imensa, não tem essa de só uma vez, você vai continuar engordando eu estou tentanto parar definitivamente com esses hábitos, por mais difícil que seja, já que tenho muita compulsão alimentar, e onde desconto a minha tristeza e consequentemente desconto no meu corpo. Acho que o que ajuda a piorar a compulsão é a tristeza, tenho por mim que sou uma pessoa muito triste, então para aliviar essa tristeza acabo fazendo algo que vai me trazer muito mais tristeza, é como um ciclo vicioso. Mas para quem quer ser MAGRA o céu é o limite, então vamos fazer tudo, absolutamente tudo para ficarmos magras.

hj eu irei no show do Paul... nem sei q roupa colocar ><

small things to improve your life 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

compliment people more often

pick up a crafty hobby

start to learn a language that you've always wanted to speak

take more photos and videos

watch movies, documentaries, shows, read, write, etc etc..

practice your makeup skills and try different styles

law of affirmation

start a blog (or just read mine hehe <3)

write essays on whatever interests you at the moment

make new playlists and update old ones

workout, stretch, go for walks

allow yourself to be bored sometimes; you don't have to constantly be doing things

talk to yourself with love and kindness

go thrifting and update your wardrobe

try new coffee shops and find your favourite one

embody the energy that you'd like to attract

dress up every day, you don't need a special occasion to wear your favourite outfits

decorate and rearrange your room until it feels like you

journal and write about your day, dreams, and ideas

manifest and visualise

reach out to your friends more often

visit more museums and art galleries

talk to the moon

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3

my insta: @ malusokay

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