Society If Women Were Seen As People

i gained ten pounds and broke up with my boyfriend

Now i’m like the soul sucking extremely depressed and hopeless mentally ill instead of the manic 🌈💕🌸 mentally ill where i felt good but knew it was bad

I need friends man, if you're okay with me messaging you to start a friendship, please reblog this post (':

have you ever taken pictures and think you look good and then it's like woah reality check 😓😓😓😓

I finally realized that I gain weight when I eat more than usual!!!!! yayyyyy (I'm joking I want to cut the fat right off of me)

Some of my favorite shots from Cubism/きゅびずむ

i thought of something funny༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ

my mood just goes 📈📉📈📉📈📉 everyday

Today's Lesson is:

How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community

Today I found a predator in my DMs. At first I was going to block and ignore but I thought it'd be a good chance to see how these people work and relay it back to you guys bc everyone here deserves to be protected!!

So

Before we begin!!!! If you're worried that the person in your DM is a predator, they probably are!!!

We don't live in a world where random people will want to help enable you 3D for no reason! Ana buddies are a symbiotic relationship. You have something to gain and something to give, it's an equal exchange. Ana coaches are not! Nobody is going to help you for no reason.

Check this person's profile!

Do they have:

No profile picture?

Don't follow anyone?

A random slap-dash username?

No credibility or proof that they are some sort of coach?

That's because, they're a predator, trying to take advantage of your insecure youth! Never give them anything that they can use against you!

This includes:

Pictures

Real names

Real nationalities

Always lace everything you say to them with lies so they don't know the truth!

Or yk, just block them

Heres a step-by-step guide on how a predator will approach you

Number 1: Vague Psuedo-Professionalism

They'll ask questions to make themselves seem as if this is something they do often.

Questions like:

"Why do you feel like you need to be coached?"

"Have you ever been coached before?"

This will lead you into a false sense of security. Don't fall for it!

Number 2: Body-Shaming

No matter what your stats are, they'll make you seem like the fattest thing to walk the earth

I told the predator I was observing very average stats, within the healthy BMI for that age and height, and he responded with

"You're a very very big girl, aren't you?"

Also, ew creepy

Don't let any man talk to you like this in general. On or offline

Number 3: Pictures

Now, don't let it get this far. If you've noticed all the previous red flags block and report.

But here they'll ask for pictures. Getting aggressive when you don't comply

They'll say it's to check your stats or something, don't fall for it

They'll use these images to blackmail you later, this is called "revenge p0rn", stay safe out there

Number 4: Blackmail

This is going off what I said earlier but, if you don't comply, or even if you do, they'll use ana to blackmail you.

"You need me"

"You need my help"

"You want it, don't you?"

They want to make it seem as if you need them. But you're strong you don't need a perv to tell you what you need

You're strong enough to know that handouts like these are suspicious and should be dealt with accordingly

These people are predators wanting to prey on children with e4ting disorders and we can't stand for it

If anyone is in a situation they feel like they cannot get out of, comment or DM. I'll respond as fast as I can

And please repost this, so it can reach someone who needs it before it's too late

I'm everyone's older sister, I've decided

anyways, that was

How to Catch a Predator in the 3D Community

Stay safe out their my lovelies <33

Unique coat colors on cats 🖤

i ate so much today 😕

I look kinda fat 🙁 at least my stomach is usually flatter but Im really so sad

maybe I should dress up and look nice for these that might be cute

i wanna kut myself 😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😋