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Bpd - Blog Posts
theres something about being called "buddy" by someone who used to call you their "babyboy" that really just stabs me 87 in the chest
how the fuck do you make friends.
everyone else in my life gets to go hang out with their friends and go home to their partners and i hate it. i really hate to say that i hate seeing their happiness. it's not that i don't want them to b be happy and lead good lives, it's that im a fucking dumb jealous asshole.
everyone makes it seem like them and all of their friends just clicked together. there was no awkwardness at the start and everything just went so smoothly. meanwhile i can't get past the awkward small talk phase with everyone and it's completely discouraging. I dont want to end up alone. i don't wanna be forced into the shadows while i watch everyone else have a life besides me because i just flat out didn't deserve to have one.
tldr someone pls become unhealthily obsessed with me and i will offer the same in return
you know when you're talking to your friend who you also used to date and they're talking about their new love interests and it's all you can fucking do not to lose your shit and split on them and just listen and congratulate them because logically you love that person because they are your best friend and they also love you but shit just didn't work romantically between the two of you but now every time they talk about it you wanna put scissors in your ears because you feel so fucking lonely and disgusting and unworthy of the thing that everyone else has but you don't??
no me neither
there is probably nothing good for you here.
• Adam/Adrian (i am indecisive call me fuckface if you want idc)
• 21
• he/they
a vent blog or something idk there are many trigger warnings
i am a BPD jude truther idc
BPD Resources Masterlist
[NPD]
Creating this has made me realise just how much people underestimate/downplay the stigma surrounding BPD. It’s infuriating.
Anyway, here is the official resource masterlist for BPD. I will be adding to it as time goes on:)
BPD stigma
BPD stigma among clinicians
I have BPD and here’s 6 things I wish people understood
Mental health advocacy is pointless if you’ll support people with anxiety and depression but won’t support those with personality disorders
No I don’t need helping learning how to deal with a “borderline girlfriend”, I need help dealing with myself
Emotional abuse tag and BPD
The results when searching up how to manage BPD
BPD and suicide
Educating yourself on BPD
Basic info on BPD
NPD + BPD comorbidity
Why is it referred to as ‘borderline personality disorder’?
Facts vs. fiction about BPD
Living with BPD
BPD things that people don’t talk about enough
Loving with BPD is hard
Living, breathing, BPD
What it’s like living with BPD: a lived experience perspective
Managing BPD
Coping With BPD: DBT & CBT skills to soothe the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder
The dialectal therapy skills workbook
A quick exercise: challenging self-hate
Different forms of therapy
Deep breathing gifs
Splitting with BPD
Chloe’s splitting checklist and reminders
What is splitting?
How I cope with splitting (written by someone with BPD)
BPD positivity so you don’t have to go looking
People with low/no empathy still have feelings
Several positive affirmations for people with cluster b disorders
If you have BPD, I love you
Some of the best people in my life are borderlines
You’re not a monster for having a personality disorder
So much love to my BPD bi boys out there
Positivity for systems with BPD
Positive traits of people with BPD
People with BPD deserve as much slack as neurotypicals
BPD safe blogs (also safe for cluster b disorders in general!)
@borderline-culture-is
@bpd00m
@citrine-rabbit
@cluster-b-culture-is
@gentle-positivity
@hauntedselves
@hellbrainspeaks
@your-fave-is-crippled
@mirroringshards
Haiii for the NPD playlist thingy I think 'Brutus' by the Buttress is great ( heads up she might be a radfem tho so you can use local files instead ) also 'Super Soaked' and 'Black Hole' by Be Your Own Pet !!!!
( these are based off my npd experiences which are tainted by my bpd too so I get it if you think they dont fit )
Epic thank you <33
(I love Brutchress but I actually had no idea she may be radfem so thank you for telling me (・・;) <3)
It’s this or I feel nothing at all
THEY REPLACED ME
theyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedmetheyreplacedme
they said i was their favourite
they said they loved me
they said that IM their number one
WHY DID THEY REPLACE ME
DID I JST MEAN NOTHING TO THEM
DID THEY JST LIE THIS WHOLE TIME
IF THEY WERE TELLING THE TRUTH, HOW DID THEY REPLACE ME SO EASILY
am i rlly that replaceable?
to that one person
no revenge bcz one day ull realize i only had the purest intentions towards u, i never hurt u, all i did was love u, n i hope ull realize it n that itll haunt u for the rest of ur life
you might not like me anymore but ill always love you. ill never meet someone who is as amazing and pretty as you, and, in turn, youll never meet someone whos even a little bit similar to me, and i hope that fucking haunts you.
The same thing goes for BPD people!
Since people seem to feel invalidated because of me possibly having the same mental illness as them?!
You can't tell me that my attachment-detachment issues in my relationships are just how normal people function or why I have a no sense of self, my mood swings, lack of decision making, self harm, chronic feeling of worthlessness, anxiety, dissociation etc.
Other than that I don't think with everything I experienced in my childhood, I could possibly come out as a normal human being. 😭
It’s kind of funny when people are against self diagnosis.
Like you are about to tell me I just ⭐️ve and B/P cause it’s fun?
Yeah it’s a feast bro, you should try that sh!t some time^^
Be fucking for real! I have had an 3d, when I didn’t even fucking know what it was.
